There is something lovely that happens when you ask to take someone’s picture, instead of merely trying to capture a moment on the sly. Your subjects give you a permanent gift when their eyes meet yours, when they stop what they are doing to say ‘Yes’ to your request for a photo, when they give you their energy to take home as a memory, along with the bits of information stored digitally in the camera.
In the Summer of 2006 I spent 5 weeks in Siena, Italy studying Italian. I was fortunate to find a small apartment to rent on Via Montanini, one of the main streets down which the medieval parades would march day and night for weeks leading up to the world’s most famous horse race – Il Palio.
The energy in this famous and beautiful Italian city – thick with visiting Italians and tourists alike, the views and vistas around every corner one more breathtaking than the next, the piazzas and restaurants and bars packed with people, the weather perfect – was like nothing I had experienced in the States. It was impossible not to take photos of everything and everyone. I tried to inhale it all in, afraid I would never have the opportunity to go back and to see it one more time, or, if I did, that it would never be the same.
One day I went for a walk after lunch and these two beautiful girls, who worked in a restaurant, were on their break as I walked by. They said Hello and smiled and I stopped in my tracks. I asked if I could take their picture together, they said “Si,” cuddled together in the doorway and lit up for l’Americana with the camera.
That moment changed everything for me on that trip to Italy and I tried, from that time on, to ask for a photo whenever I could – except of the statues, of course. (Well, those were silent requests, silently granted, and became some of my favorites).
A few days before I was to leave for the States I went back to Florence, a city I could never get enough of, then boarded a bus to Arezzo, where I had never been. It was blazing hot in Arezzo. I arrived during Siesta and the streets were fairly deserted. Except for a few elderly people peering out their apartment windows, and a gentleman sitting under the pines in a park. In the end I was glad to have arrived during Siesta. It seemed the few people I was meant to photograph showed up just for me.
I have not been to Italy in 3 years now and I miss it. But the energy of the people I photographed on that trip has stayed with me. When I look at them I can hear the sound of drums in the streets, I can see the medieval colors of the Palio costumes, I can sense the vibration of horses hooves against the ancient cobblestones, hear children laughing and playing, imagine the men gathering to chat in the neighborhood piazzas at lunch.
I can hear the silence of the trees, of old men and women being alone, of cats and dogs being, well, Italian cats and dogs.
I can hear the music of Italy.
And how beautiful the word “Si” is, when I would ask, “Posso farle una foto?”
La vita e bella…
Have a lovely weekend, everyone,
Giselle
#blogsofaugust #Italy #Siena #Arezzo pio dal cin Jack C Crawford Meg Tufano
October 19, 2013 at 1:39 am
Beautiful story, beautiful photos! What a great idea.
October 19, 2013 at 1:45 am
You are welcome shawn m. robicheaux and thank you so much Angela Mia. I’m glad they touched you.
October 19, 2013 at 2:03 am
Try to look everyone i pass right in the eyes. say “hi” too, if they meet mine. you’re special Giselle Minoli
October 19, 2013 at 2:12 am
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matters,makes a difference doesn’t it Moe Lipps? You’re kind. Thank you.October 19, 2013 at 2:14 am
I like the way that statue put on a pose. They never do that for me 🙂
October 19, 2013 at 2:27 am
maybe ’cause you are a man, Satyr Icon ;o) (nice looking one, at that).
October 19, 2013 at 2:36 am
Satyr Icon well, Dante I don’t think would pose nude, and David was a bit shy the day I visited the Academia. Actually…a guard slapped my hand for taking a photo of his bum!
October 19, 2013 at 2:43 am
Why that tease! He was on duty in the nuddy, and had the gall to stop you from taking a pic of his bum?
He should’ve been flattered! 🙂
October 19, 2013 at 2:46 am
What a lovely story. I traveled to Italy last May and know the feelings you speak of.
Thank you for sharing this story. I so enjoy reading your posts. They always inspire me.
October 19, 2013 at 2:56 am
Really Satyr Icon it was so odd not being allowed to take a photo. In truth the Academia’s policy is the same as most museums – No Photos! – but it seemed almost salacious in an un-salacious way for a guard to notice that I had snuck behind The David to take a photo from behind (like I was being naughty…and, let’s face it…I was!). I mean…it was a marble bum, not one in the flesh. I got my pic though.
Honestly, The David is one of the most extraordinary works of art. Magnficent. Huge! I cannot even begin to imagine the 3 dimensional creative mind of an artist possessed of the capacity to render something so precisely, so perfectly, so beautifully to that scale. The problem was that the room was so packed you could not get any distance from it, to really take it in. Such a pity. I had the same experience when I went to the Sistine Chapel in Rome. Swarms of people (Yes, pointing their cameras skyward and being warned by the guards and told to shush – No talking in the chapel! – The Italians can be very bossy.)
But there is a replica of The David in the piazza outside the Uffizi if you can’t get into the Academia…it’s a bit of a consolation. For anyone who thinks that no one cares about art. I beg to differ. You stand in line for hours in Italy to get into the museums. I love that actually….
October 19, 2013 at 3:02 am
Hi Elizabeth Millard. Well, I’m jealous. Where did you go? Holiday? Business? I’ve promised myself next summer…but the Cambio is a disaster. It has been for a long, long time. Sigh.
October 19, 2013 at 3:06 am
The statue of David is marvellous. I’m content to assume the best sculptors not only study the subject with their eyes, but also extensively with their hands. So just sit there for a while Giselle Minoli, how you would have done the same to the subject, of course for art! 🙂
October 19, 2013 at 3:10 am
If you ever get back, will you look them up +Giselle Minoli?
October 19, 2013 at 3:13 am
Hi Giselle Minoli went on holiday for 12 days, Stayed in the smal town of Rufina, just east of Florence, 30 minutes by train. I plan to return in May again next year (I hope). Did not make it to Rome, tho. Many day trips and, of course, the train to Venice. I went to see friends I met on a common music community. They spent all their time with me and shared the beauty of Italy with me. I dream of Italy all the time!! I think your heart is yearning to go again……very soon!!
October 19, 2013 at 3:16 am
Elizabeth Millard I remember the first time I went. I landed in Rome (from New York) at dawn and the doves were flying. I set foot on terra firma and I felt at home for the first time in my life. At the time I didn’t speak a word of Italian. But in my heart I did….
October 19, 2013 at 3:18 am
Bill Collins It’s a strange thing about Italy…it is like every statue, every work of art, every duomo…is there for each individual visitor…like it was created just for them. Everything is so very personal. People flock to that country because it is covered with beauty. Yes, I know, there are huge problems. But…the beauty one cannot deny. Yes. I will look up my old friends!
October 19, 2013 at 3:24 am
Yes yes !! I know!!. I felt at home, like I had been gone for so long. I cryed alot while I was there. When I turned the corner in Florence and entered the Piazza della Signoria, I could not stop the tears from rolling down my cheeks, in the museums, I actually said to my italians friends…this is my home. Everything just felt so familiar, al tho I had never been there before.
What do you take of this feeling?
October 19, 2013 at 3:35 am
Well, I don’t know Elizabeth Millard…but I do. Italy is a country for artists, of all kinds…writers, poets, musicians, singers, dancers, designers…but it’s also a country for people who have passion for lots of things…for design, and food and cars and talking! and wine! and strolling! (forever). Italy is a musical place. It sings to anyone who is willing to listen. Maybe you crave having that be your everyday surrounding. I know that I do.
Years ago, an Italian friend came to visit me in New York. It was his first trip to the States and he loved New York but couldn’t understand it. He said, “But where is the piazza?” He couldn’t imagine people living without a communal place to stroll, to meet, to talk, to greet.
On the other side of it though is the craving for modernity. I think Italy is our struggle with ourselves: we hold onto our memories of the past and refuse to move into the future. We have courage but we are afraid. We like security but we take risks. We are hedonistic, but we work hard. We are talented, but we are lazy. We are confident, but insecure. Italy is a country of contradictions.
I think people travel there because it is honest, authentic, grand, a mess, beautiful, poor, complex, impossible to understand. Like every single one of us!
October 19, 2013 at 3:53 am
Italy continues to take me from my place here. But I allow her too. My friends have worked at the same job and lived in the same house for 20 years in a very small town. I have moved alot with my work and they were amazed at the opportunies I had to do this. I do believe our struggles cross borders and people are people, never the less where you live. Our thoughts and outlooks vary through traditions, cultures and enviroment. Thank you for taking the time to share thoughts with me. See, Italy is singing now..and I am singing with her
October 19, 2013 at 9:23 am
What an incredibly wonderful personal account of your trip to Italy, Giselle Minoli ! Has me misty with wanderlust! Life begins when we go outside the known and familiar – or so it seems to me. I’ve always enjoyed travelling. Your photo and report just made my day! Thanks so much for sharing this!
October 19, 2013 at 11:06 am
What a wonderful collection of life affirming photos. Giselle Minoli I’ve read your comment above several times, there is so much to think about here: “I think people travel there because it is honest, authentic, grand, a mess, beautiful, poor, complex, impossible to understand. Like every single one of us!” I too have always been fascinated with southern Europe, Italy Spain and Greece in particular. Yes, perhaps it is the eternal struggle between our head and heart.
October 19, 2013 at 11:40 am
Thanks for these great images. I love Siena. I live in a very beautiful place but I still envy the Sienesi their wonderful city.
October 19, 2013 at 12:10 pm
Thanks for sharing your trip down memory lane.
October 19, 2013 at 12:23 pm
Ah….good morning everyone. Thank you all so much for your sweet comments. I know that I am not alone in my passion for Italy. Joseph M. I think many Italians themselves feel that way about Siena…and the ancient rivalry between Florence and Siena is still in play – which is more beautiful, more historically important…the Florentians trying from time-to-time to stop that horse race! But the Sienesi are proud and stubborn…and…for my money the Duomo in Siena is the most beautiful that I have seen in Italy (should I write that on the Internet? Oh dear!). And you’re welcome dawn ahukanna.
Eileen O’Duffy When I was a child (well, actually, this is still true) I was jealous of Europeans and their proximity to countries of such varied and interesting comparative cultures. I was jealous that whenever I met anyone from Europe they seemed to have been everywhere because it is so geographically easy to absorb it all. I was so against the Euro – and converting everything to homogeneity. There are pockets of places that have remained rooted in their history. And, Yes, the struggle between our heads and hearts.
Italy’s struggles – it seems virtually at war with itself – is something any of us can relate to, I think. And, at the end of the day, what are any of us to do…but have a bowl of pasta and a glass of wine and the company of our friends? It’s a balm for the soul. Thank you, Eileen.
October 19, 2013 at 12:29 pm
Eve A you must empty your bucket of Siena and Florence! You must! There are many Swiss in Italy – many Swiss speak the language. You did that long trip through the States – it would be fun to do that through Italy, don’t you think? I want to do that next time. I want to rent a car and through the whole country. My husband is afraid we’ll get lost for eternity on the round-a-abouts (they happen to be particularly big and surrounded by fields and if you don’t have a Garmin…well, yikes!), but, absent a car the train is pretty fabulous. Next stop for me: Genoa and the Cinque Terre!
And Hello Wan Nan Yes…life begins when we go outside the known and familiar. In truth, I’m not so sure most Italians do that so well. I do not blame them. The rituals of their lives, the history of what they have given the rest of us – language (Dante!), music (Verdi!), art (Michelangelo, da Vinci!) that cuisine, those cars! the wine, the entire sensability – is so staggering that the absence of it elsewhere is lonely.
I try to surround myself with it as much as possible in my own life when I can be there. Okay. Call me obsessed. It is true. I admit it!
October 19, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Giselle Minoli Have you read Beautiful Ruins? I only got to read it a few months ago, you will be back on a plane to Italy and Cinque Terre in the morning! I absolutely loved the novel and the hilarious comparisons between Italy and Hollywood.
October 19, 2013 at 12:47 pm
No I have not Eileen O’Duffy but I will on your recommendation. And for anyone as besotted by the language as I am, there is the charming La Bella Lingua, My Love affair with Italian, the World’s Most Enchanting Language, by Dianne Hales (it is to me as well…no offense to any other language!)…
October 20, 2013 at 1:44 pm
This makes me wish to travel Italy. One day I hope I will….
October 20, 2013 at 9:42 pm
Paul Durham I hope that traveling to Italy one day is a real possibility for you. But then, I’m quite prejudiced in its favor!
October 21, 2013 at 3:29 pm
It is something within my grasp, so it just might happen. 🙂
October 21, 2013 at 8:08 pm
Good Afternoon Giselle Minoli ~ Such a delightful post! Your photos and story are wonderful, and yes, I agree about asking first.
I love, love, love Italy! Especially, I loved Sienna, and have many fond memories of my time spent there, as well as in Florence, Rome, and Ravello. Eve A Definitely, you should go!
The round-abouts, ha! I rented an Alfa for a road trip from Florence to Rome, by way of the Amalfi Coast, and I’ve been stuck in a few. An adventure, for sure. But, one doesn’t need a car, and in the cities, a car is a hassle. I turned the Alfa in as soon as I got to Rome, and hoofed it everywhere.
And I agree with you about the Duomo in Sienna, it is magnificent.
November 7, 2013 at 3:46 am
Thanks to Denis Labelle I found your stream. It take a lot of courage to ask someone to take a picture and it is a true gift when they agree. Thanks for sharing!
November 7, 2013 at 2:17 pm
Very kind of you Rama Drama. And you are welcome. Denis Labelle is the ultimate sharer on G+. The ultimate. Thank you, Denis.
November 7, 2013 at 2:28 pm
Di niente, Giselle Minoli
November 7, 2013 at 2:39 pm
such kind people here. love it.
November 16, 2013 at 10:07 pm
Super
March 6, 2019 at 7:45 am
. . . . I always thought I was the ‘crazed one’ for thinking thoughts like that. I have on too many occasions experienced the very same profoundity concerning our humanity.
March 6, 2019 at 1:33 pm
Allan Hill Hello. And now our means of communicating with one another over such similar experiences is going away. This was a favorite post. Thank you for reading it. Even now that matters to me!