My mother died of Alzheimer’s. My husband’s mother of vascular dementia. Tonight, on behalf of everyone who knows someone with Alzheimer’s or a related dementia, I share with you a letter I received from Berna Huebner, co-Director with Eric Ellena of I Remember Better When I Paint, a film narrated by Oliva de Havilland about the impact art therapy can have on those living with dementia.
So many people I know have a parent, or an aunt or uncle, or a grandparent or good friend or sibling whose life has been invaded by this most unwelcome visitor, one that stays and never leaves.
“Their involvement with the arts and other creative activities, is now being recognized as a way to help bring them back into more active communication and a richer quality of life.”
There are many of us who have experienced first hand the connection to a passion for one art form or another that someone with cognitive memory problems will often retain even when they have almost completely lost their ability to communicate normally.
For my mother, it was through music and drawing. I would play her Frank Sinatra CDs when we would sit and color together. And I saw the look on her face when she was completely absorbed in the music during our art sessions. I know the impact that music therapy, dance therapy…art therapy can have.
Below is Berna’s letter, which I have copied here in its entirety, because it gives the details about the Alzheimer’s crisis worldwide and the tells the story of this wonderful and moving film, which I have seen.
Berna and her partners on I Remember Better When I Paint need to bring this film to a wider audience. Just think what could happen if each of us gave just $5. $10. $25.
I have a dream that when enough people in this country know about the power of art therapy, our friends, lovers and family members with Alzheimer’s will at least be able to remain connected to their artistic souls because their family members will use art therapy as a tool to improve the quality of their daily lives.
Kindly read Berna’s letter, and donate if at all possible. All of the details are in her letter.
Thank you,
Giselle
“October 6, 2013
Dear Friends,
We need your help. Over 5.2 million Americans currently have Alzheimer’s disease and that number is expected to triple by 2050. It affects everyone it touches, not only those diagnosed with the disease, but also the friends and family around them. And, unfortunately there is currently no cure.
There is, however, some positive emerging news about how to better cope with Alzheimer’s, even while research toward a cure or prevention continues. Caregivers, neurologists and therapists are discovering that engagement in the arts or other creative activities can diminish the symptoms of dementia. This is a hopeful new story that needs telling and retelling—and this is why we need your help!
I Remember Better When I Paint is a documentary film, narrated by Olivia de Havilland, that demonstrates how creative arts can enhance the quality of life for people with serious memory impairment. It was inspired by the true life stories of people with Alzheimer’s who experienced the renewing power of creative engagement. One such person was the artist Hilgos, who, after being afflicted, withdrew from almost all social interactions. The film takes us through her journey as she picks up a brush, begins to paint again—and recovers a sense of identity and fulfillment. Similarly, Yasmin Aga Khan shares the story of her mother, Rita Hayworth, who had Alzheimer’s and found new peace of mind as she painted.
The film visits three major museums – The Louvre in Paris, The Art Institute in Chicago and the Phillips Collection in Washington, D.C.—where programs focusing on Alzheimer’s and the Arts have been launched. It also visits care centers and neurologists’ offices and laboratories– where specialists explain how parts of the brain are often spared when Alzheimer’s sets in—and how activities that involve those neurological pathways can improve the quality of life for those who have been impaired. You can see a short trailer for the film at: www.irememberbetterwhenipaint.com.
As the toll of Alzheimer’s rises, and as researchers continue to search for ways to cure or prevent it, we want to do everything possible to help those who are ALREADY LIVING WITH IT–and their caregivers– to improve the quality of their lives. That is why we have developed a plan to distribute the film “I Remember When I Paint” on a broad nationwide basis. For the film is not just another story; it is a powerful case study, showing how life can take on new meanings despite the impact of Alzheimer’s.
We know that people who have seen the film have changed their perceptions. We have shared the film through community screenings in such places as The Metropolitan Museum in New York, the Northwestern University School of Medicine, The School of the Art Institute of Chicago, New York University, the Phillips Collection, and in foreign venues from Paris to Dublin to Hong Kong, to name just a few. The film has also been broadcast on television in local markets including New York City, Chicago, and Washington DC. Thousands have visited our website, purchased the film and followed our twitter “Alz chats.” We just heard this week, for example, from a woman who launched a creative arts program in her care facilities after viewing the film. Her account testifies to the film’s impact. illustrating the ripple effect that the film can create among those who have a chance to see it.
“It changes the way people look at Alzheimer’s,” says Marc Wortmann, CEO of Alzheimer’s Disease International. The film “shows a new pathway for engaging with a loved one you thought was lost…” comments Gail Sheehy, author and journalist. Yes, the feedback has been wonderful. But we feel we have only scratched the surface—and that an enormous potential audience can be reached through a concerted effort to bring the film to a nationwide television audience—even as we work to engage audiences through an expanded program of local screenings and workshops.
I Remember Better When I Paint has been widely described as an important educational resource, a set of personal stories that inspires people to action. But more people need to see the film. With your generous donation to the HILGOS Foundation you can help expand our educational project to include millions of families who are struggling every day to provide a better life for those dealing with Alzheimer’s. Every contribution, no matter the amount, will be dedicated to the further distribution of the film, raising new awareness and generating new hope.
Please help us achieve the following goals:
Goal 1 – $50,000 to air the film on nationwide television—we have been assured that sponsorship at this level will take the film into hundreds of thousands of households all across the country.
Goal 2 – $25,000 for educational outreach in local communities where top professional expertise can be shared, along with the film, in workshop and discussion settings.
We encourage those who are able to make donations of $500 or $1000—or more—to do so–helping us to reach these goals more quickly. But again, we emphasize that every donation—of whatever size—will help to change the stereotypical, hopeless image of Alzheimer’s. We also encourage you to send this letter to others who will want to help. Donations can be made directly online, through www.hilgos.org, or by check, made payable to The Hilgos Foundation, and addressed to the following:
The Hilgos Foundation
406 Woodland Road
Highland Park, Illinois 60035
We need not passively surrender to Alzheimer’s. We can do something—you can do something—right now—that will bring new hope to people who have encountered –or will encounter—Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia.
We thank you in advance for partnering with us in this effort.
Sincerely,
Berna G. Huebner
President and Founder
Hilgos Foundation
Co-Director, I Remember Better When I Paint”
Yes I want to support the educational project for I Remember Better When I Paint. Donate online at www.hilgos.org.
Berna Huebner
111 East 85th Street, Apt. 28-E
New York, New York 10028
The Hilgos Foundation
406 Woodland Road
Highland Park, Illinois 60035
Ph.847-432-5476
www.hilgos.org
bernahuebner@aol.com
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October 9, 2013 at 12:41 am
Ah…. Lena Levin and Wayne Upchurch thank you both so much for re-sharing this. I am grateful.
October 9, 2013 at 12:50 am
My pleasure.
October 9, 2013 at 1:00 am
So much opinionated reactionary stuff gets posted which Will be forgotten, but something like this resonates with most all of us: resharing is my deep honor.
October 9, 2013 at 1:10 am
Wayne Upchurch Thank you so much. May your heart, soul and spirit enjoy the arts, dance and music for a long, long time to come…
October 9, 2013 at 1:14 am
Giselle Minoli I suspected that there must be a history, but did not know the depths of its connection with you. My mother’s side of the family has had dementia in it and I am seeing hints of it now as I care for her. So, I am anticipating searching out those who have navigated the path of caring for parents with these issues.
I know that I have suggested to you the experiences and work in the field of promoting musical therapy of a favorite musician of mine, Melody Gardot. I repeat her name for those reading you since.
My mother loves the theater and has been a season subscriber to several local ones. Taking her to see a show that her granddaughter performed in this past week was a reminder of what led me to the theater so many years ago. And performed a bit of magic on my mother as well.
October 9, 2013 at 1:19 am
The arts are magic Bill Abrams. Oliver Sacks did pioneering work on the healing power of music. It was his work that inspired my own proposal to the music industry to bring therapeutic music listening to dementia patients. We forget that people have been making music and art for thousands of years. It is primal. Music is prelingual. Children start to boogie very early on and they immerse themselves in their own creativity. Whether or not men and women who have dementia revert to that state or simply uncover that innocent place of comfort and absorption once learned language leaves them is to be debated. With my mother I preferred to think that she had found peace there.
Thank you for mentioned Melody Gardot to everyone. I am embarrassed that I have not followed up. See how magical the arts are? They speak to so many people…
October 9, 2013 at 2:09 am
Giselle Minoli Follow up, shmallow up. Keep your embarrassment for another day.
I was looking for a link for Chateau Gardot, her vehicle for sponsoring musical therapy, to recommend when I came across this video that, mainly at the end, speaks about her experiences with the power of music. I can’t think of a better introduction for you to her though. Melody Gardot Pt.1 The Accidental musician (13 and a half minutes)
Here is how her first record company told her story: Melody Gardot – My One And Only Thrill EPK
October 9, 2013 at 2:18 am
I don’t know why I type this, perhaps it is because of the sensitive nature of your posts, Giselle Minoli but I am beginning to show signs of dementia. Alzheimer’s perhaps because of motor skills fading, but nonetheless I am not what I was, aging aside.
The only thing which scares me is that often I never feel in the moment, if you will…
October 9, 2013 at 2:26 am
Rick Turner Of course I have no real life knowledge, but you are awfully young to be showing signs of dementia. We all go through phases, stages and we change…sleep changes, our diets, stresses, work, exercise, all of these things have an effect on our health. Could I encourage you to see someone? An internist and a nutritionist? I take many health enhancing supplements – fish oils, a multi-Vitamin, Zyflamend – that I am a big believer in. I think we have to work at being healthy. And I don’t believe we are fated to Alzheimer’s. As my own health practitioner says, and I believe her – these are all switches…and we don’t have to turn them on, or let anything else turn them on…
October 9, 2013 at 2:40 am
Rick Turner Ms. Minoli has powerz. Kidding aside, I am sure this is not a welcome “notification” for you. But not feeling in the moment – because you are in the past, in the future, or just somewhere else?
October 9, 2013 at 2:45 am
This is wonderful.
I vaguely remember a similar story about playing music. (Found it.) It was on NPR and about Alzheimer’s patients response to music. And a documentary called “Alive Inside”. http://www.npr.org/2012/04/18/150891711/for-elders-with-dementia-music-sparks-great-awakenings
October 9, 2013 at 2:49 am
Perhaps you are correct Giselle Minoli and I shall consider your words and advice, but when I have to stop and think of what I did yesterday it gives me significant pause. It is NOT a mere matter of where I placed my keys.
October 9, 2013 at 2:54 am
Well, Bill Abrams thanks for the notification, believe it or not. Many times I am in no tense; people say hello and ask how I am. My response, which they always think is a joke, as intended but truly serious: “I exist.”
October 9, 2013 at 3:17 am
Rick Turner I hear you. To me, your response, your departure from “fine,” speaks of a recognition of the moment – a connection with the present. It is perhaps a bit more direct invitation to converse than the opening conversational gambit of “how are you?’ So, I see it more as a matter of style.
But if you feel it is a matter of diminishing faculties, perhaps a professional consultation is in order. Still, I am glad you “exist” and look forward to hearing more from you..
October 9, 2013 at 3:37 am
You make an excellent point Bill Abrams and I promise to consider it. But if, as you interpret a matter of style, why am I alone on an island? Perhaps a change of venue. Thank you for your response.
October 9, 2013 at 6:13 am
Believe it or not Vitamin B12 deficiency causes memory loss, ringing in the ears and hearing problems. All of the symptoms people think of as Alzheimers. Strict vegetarians can get this if they do not know the vegetable sources of vitamin B12 but the body can store enough vitamin B12 for five years. Older people who eat meat and have the vitamin in their diet suffer the deficiency because of too much white processed wheat flour that is like a paste blocking up the intestines, too much meat protein causing an overgrowth of bad bacteria in the intestines or too much anti-biotics that kill off the bad bacteria and cause an overgrowth of the good bacteria (Candida overgrowth). All of these cause the digestive system to not be able to absorb nutrition from food.
October 9, 2013 at 12:02 pm
Rick Turner There be wisdom in Bill Abrams’ words. Years ago I read a book by Dr. Christiane Northrup called Women’s Bodies Women’s Wisdom. There was conversation about waking up so much more frequently and not being able to get back to sleep and she talked about how perhaps one isn’t supposed to be sleeping…that one is perhaps supposed to be refocusing life’s energies on something else…that just because one always has slept 8 hours doesn’t mean that’s the way it should always be. She talked about waking up and writing poetry…or drawing. In other words, she turned what was an anxiety into a creatively directed channel.
So, too, at a writer’s conference in Kentucky recently I heard the divine Molly Peacock, a poet, talk about her new book, The Paper Garden, Mrs. Delaney begins her life’s work at 72. There was a Mrs. Delaney and she did, indeed, at 72 begin a career that would end with her being the most well known paper flower mosaic artist – her entire work hangs in the British Museum.
While I agree with Bill that perhaps a professional consultation is in order…I also strongly believe that silenced voices within us knock on our inner doors and ask us to meet their needs. Perhaps your “island” will lead you across the seas to another land of adventure Rick Turner. Don’t rule it out…
October 9, 2013 at 12:14 pm
Ahhhhhh…good morning all of you kind people. Thank you ALL so much for your supportive +1s, and for re-sharing my fellow art lovers Susanne Ramharter (you are missing out if you do not catch her daily art posts) and Lena Levin (you can see her stunningly still lifes, portraits and landscapes on her web site at http://www.lenalevin.com/)…and Bobbi Jo Woods Mz Maau Ergin Kocyildirim Walter H Groth Paul Schoonhoven Scott GrantSmith Cory Trusty Grizwald Grim Tressa Green Sarah Mangan Back Row Brass Robin Pierce and +Salam Ahmad for spreading the word about I Remember Better When I Paint to your own circles.
I prefer to hope that you +1’d and Shared because of your support of the subject matter. But if it is because someone you know and love has Alzheimer’s or some related dementia, I empathize with you and send you a warm embrace out through the Googlesphere as you deal with this particular madness.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
October 9, 2013 at 12:33 pm
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October 9, 2013 at 12:38 pm
Some things are just important Giselle Minoli . They have to be shared..;-)
October 9, 2013 at 12:40 pm
😉 Paul Schoonhoven
October 9, 2013 at 1:01 pm
Indeed Mz Maau. Indeed. Fingers crossed.
October 9, 2013 at 1:05 pm
Much love and Big Hugs Giselle Minoli…
October 9, 2013 at 1:10 pm
And right back at you sweet Ayoub Khote…thank you!
October 9, 2013 at 1:25 pm
Great share Giselle Minoli with many important messages — impact of memory loss, coping with aging, and the power of art therapy. Thank you.
October 9, 2013 at 1:28 pm
You are welcome Kurt Smith. Thank you for taking the time to read…and watch the clip. I do hope it reaches a wider audience. It is a film that should be available for everyone to watch streaming, downloadable, however that eventually happens…
October 9, 2013 at 6:01 pm
I clicked on the Times online this morning to read the article These Donors Will Take Anything But Manhattan. Where, indeed, would the world be, without art:
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/09/arts/design/these-donors-will-take-anything-but-manhattan.html