I haven’t read Mason Currey’s Daily Rituals, from which Marnie Hanel created This by That: Writers by Daily Starting Time in today’s NY Times. I have always found it challenging enough to write, to design, to create – to summon the Muses for a respectable amount of time on any given day – without having to worry that there is a right or wrong time to sit oneself down with one’s inner spirit and give outward presentation to whatever inner reveries cry to be heard.
Which is why, when I bought a copy of Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way when it was first published in 1992, I shelved it on reading her personal theory that a writer must fully devote themselves to their Morning Pages, taking advantage of that post-dream, pre-fully awake state of consciousness, before the phone and fax demand attention (what on Earth is a phone, not to mention a fax, you ask…), before the clamorous sounds of the exterior world compete with the more sensitive thrums of the interior.
I once heard a theory that one is meant to rise and have it at the hour one is born…that this time of one’s birth is one’s own pre-destined and most powerful time. Which would mean for me that I should set my alarm for 7:32am. But I have always begged to differ. 7:32am is a neither here nor there hour for me. Neither early enough to see the sun rising on the most gloriously long days of summer. Nor early enough to get anything worthy done before the phone and fax (translation: BBerry, iPhone, iPad and MacBook) announce their presence along with my daily schedule. No, 7:32am has never been a time of day to which I can creatively relate, since I was usually fully coiffed, manicured, and rushing out the door in heels by that hour.
No, from my earliest childhood I have been a night owl, preferring the end-of-day silence, after the birds have chirped their last blatherings, the television screen has ceded to snow (does anyone remember those days?), and everyone else is asleep and I have the house to myself.
To sit by the fire. To read. To listen to music. To mosey outside and look at the stars. To sit on the porch with a mug of hot cider in the Fall. To write. To design. To create. To wander the house talking out loud to myself and not be embarrassed at my crazy woman habit. To visit with my Muses, all of whom also seem to prefer the late night hour. They are at once more serious, more playful and more communicative at night, as they were last night when my husband lay sleeping beside me.
Perhaps this is why I have also always preferred to eat late at night. Never mind the Italian habit, which dictates that dinner before 8:00pm is a sort of blasphemy, there is something decidedly romantic and alluring about a delicious dinner, a glass of wine and the conversation and ideas and energy that flow when the day is over and there are many hours of rest to look forward to, instead of many hours of work and responsibility. Not to mention the sheer pleasure of taking a long walk after dinner, a tradition not easily duplicated in the States where we don’t have these lovely places called piazzas.
F. Scott Fitzgerald has always been one of my favorite writers. The Great Gatsby could never have been written during the early morning hours. So when I saw the below Meme of creative hours I smiled at discovering Fitzgerald’s penchant, in stark contrast to his writer compatriots, for beginning in the early evening and, I imagine, working into the night. My kind of man. My kind of writer. My sensibility exactly.
But I will take that creative time whenever it comes. Sometimes early. Sometimes late. I get up at 6:00am, but I’m not always prone to opening up my MacBook, which feels often like an intrusion on the peace of a sunrise, an early morning’s bird song, the sound of the breeze picking up the leaves, which are just beginning to fade in color, the edges of which are goldening ever so slightly as to be hardly discernible, and wouldn’t be were my nose buried in a computer.
Nor would I see the fuzzy caterpillar. Nor the last of the mourning dove chicks perched at the edge of its nest, ready, but fearing, to take first flight. Nor would I enjoy as much the scent of my coffee. It does taste different when I am doing nothing else but cupping the mug in two hands and holding it for a moment against my throat, against my cheek, then up close to my nose.
Yes, there are my Morning Pages. But there are also my Evening Pages, and they deserve just as much respect. I think there are many Night Writers who would come out of the closet if The Artist’s Way admitted that there are many Ways…not just one. There is much creativity that goes on late at night.
Theatre people know this. For now, we will keep it to ourselves. But you can join us whenever you want.
Have a lovely Sunday, everyone, whichever you are…morning birds or night owls.
Thanks for reading, as always. And, P.S. Feel free to chime in, a la Denis Labelle and let me know to which writerly time you most relate…even if you aren’t a creative person in that specific sense.
Giselle
August 4, 2013 at 2:15 pm
Giselle Minoli : wonderful read. I wish I could be able to describe like you just did, how much I love mornings, sunrises, etc. I am an early bird in everything.
I am a John (A)Cheever. 🙂
August 4, 2013 at 2:18 pm
Well, then, Good Morning Denis Labelle! Why doesn’t it surprise me that you are a Cheever? Of course you are…you are up with the birds surveying everything. But, rats! I ought to have asked everyone who they most resembled. But, you see, I didn’t have to because you’ve done it for me. Thank you so much.
August 4, 2013 at 2:34 pm
Ironically I’m in there with Plath. But I’m just not that sad.
August 4, 2013 at 2:35 pm
I’m always up by 6:30am or earlier, but I’m a mid-morning girl for my high point of the day. 9-11am is my best window.
August 4, 2013 at 2:38 pm
It’s so interesting the variety of times of day that people feel most productive and creative. I’ve a journalist friend who is a real night owl–working thru the wee morning hours of the night is her preference. Myself? Night time seems to be when ideas come to me but doing something about them seems to work best starting around 9 am (though I get up earlier) till early afternoon.
August 4, 2013 at 2:38 pm
Night Owl for me… if I could, I would rise around 10 or 11ish every day, and go to bed at 2 or 3 in the morning.
August 4, 2013 at 2:39 pm
Welcome to the club 🙂 Giselle Minoli
August 4, 2013 at 2:41 pm
Hi, Rugger Ducky that made me laugh. And, No, you are most decidedly not that sad. No oven’s for you, dear. I wonder if there is a time of day for, hmmm….shall we say…depressed writers? I’d like to think not.
9-11am….when the duckling is otherwise engaged???
August 4, 2013 at 2:45 pm
Kena Herod there most certainly is a brewing time. Germinating time. Like yeast rising. That’s what I do when I walk around and talk out loud to myself. Some people write furiously in that time. I don’t. I have to let things be born inside. Like in a brain womb or something. I totally get that night creativity begets day actualization thing…
Daniela Huguet Taylor. I’m sort of tortured by it to tell you the truth. I always felt somewhat guilty at being a night owl. That was well before I moved to New York and discovered there are boatloads of kindred spirits there. I wanted on some level, to be up with everyone else. But what I wanted to be creating wasn’t what everyone else was doing…and it needed it’s own private time. I admire someone like J.K. Rowling, who can write in a coffee shop surrounded by people. Brava for her. I simply cannot.
August 4, 2013 at 2:47 pm
I probably wouldn’t be able to either, I’d get distracted by life going on, I’m such a people watcher.
August 4, 2013 at 3:07 pm
Maya Angelou for me (fitting, since she spoke at my college commencement).
However, lately, my cat seems to think I should emulate John Cheever.
August 4, 2013 at 3:08 pm
So fully agreed with you – The late night evenings and the calmer, more silent world that opens up during those hours is the primary cradle of me expressing my creativity :).
I simply put create a lot more during that time of day, and i always have, when the rest of the world fades away in to sleep, although in all fairness the inspiration to create happens during all hours and moments of life – be it morning or day time, or late night evenings.
August 4, 2013 at 3:26 pm
I met Julia Cameron in Nashville & find her techniques very helpful.
August 4, 2013 at 3:33 pm
You know how you can always find a bunch of wildlife at the fringes of habitats? Look where the stream meets the shore, the forest meets the field, the desert meets the oasis, and see if you agree.
My creative times also seem to be around transitions – just after daybreak, just after sunset, just before sleep. Not that I take any kind of organized advantage of this. My schedule is not driven by maximizing my creativity. But I’ve noticed this and adjust when I do some tasks or add some time if I’m performing outside of those times.
Best of all, I can do just enough to get the job planted in my brain and then rationalize procrastinating until a “better” time. 🙂
August 4, 2013 at 3:36 pm
Ah, Yes Mark J Horowitz. The Musician’s Club. Those evening players, entertaining the rest of us. One of the great things about New York is knowing that, at any given time of day or night, there are dancers dancing, musicians making music, painters painting, writers writing, photogs taking pictures. It goes on ceaselessly, inside, outside, in studios and dance halls, in writing rooms, kitchens, backyards, the park, street corners and in bed! It is the reason many, including me, moved to New York in the first place.
Hi, Barbara Lavi. There is a reason the book is so successful. It has been useful and helpful to many, many people. Not only those who are aspiring to be artistic (or anything else), but those who already are. I only wished there had been an acknowledgement for something I would called The Daily Pages, the time of writing them, in this creative/work/family/marriage life that is often hard to get a handle on, more important than the time of day during which they were written. Her book is still there on my shelf, among my books about writing, which is its rightful place.
August 4, 2013 at 3:46 pm
I also use Creative Dreaming techniques & speak about them in my book as a way to help people discover what dreams & aspirations they wish to pursue as they build their Dream Positioning System (DPS) (Like a GPS for your life that can take you to multiple destinations at one time. +Rob Boone I love working with writers & creative artists in my therapy practice & have taught self hypnosis to songwriters.
August 4, 2013 at 3:53 pm
I offer an alternative: I am usually most creative at midday when I am at the height of my energy and cognitive abilities. In college, I struggled in my early morning major classes. For some reason, all my classes were at 8am and it was a struggle. Conversely, I’m usually in bed by 10:30, wiped out.
August 4, 2013 at 3:54 pm
Why thank you Rob Boone. I can’t imagine life…or creativity…without stream of consciousness, can you? Sundays seem particularly suited to that endeavor.
I completely relate to you dividing the writing task into professional/personal (not that for some the former doesn’t also necessarily mean the latter). I have battled that myself for many, many years. Needing to write speeches, thousands upon thousands of letters to clients and, Yes, essays. It is a different thing than writing more personal words. This is not something I have ever been able to explain to someone who doesn’t do it. Switching from one writing voice to an entirely different one is hard. My husband switches from being a surgeon to being a writer when he comes home at night, which I’m not saying isn’t challenging…just a different sort of challenge.
I dig that you meditate before writing. Sitting outside on the steps with my coffee when the sun is coming up is that for me.
Thank you for reading…and commenting.
August 4, 2013 at 3:59 pm
Jodi Kaplan why does the time span between 5:00am and 7:00am seem immense to me. On the occasions when I am up at that hour so much can get done before 7:00am. But that is also true of the time span between 10:00pm and midnight. Perhaps you should call your cat Cheever… Interesting about Maya. Somehow I wouldn’t have guessed her to be a morning poet..but it makes sense somehow.
August 4, 2013 at 4:06 pm
You have a young daughter T. Pascal. Your way makes total sense to me. My husband was the same way when his kids were small…and he’s out often by 9:00pm! I like your midday time. Those really tuned into Circadian rhythms and natural ways of being also say that is when the biggest meal should be enjoyed…when the sun is at its peak, not at the end of the day as is much of the world’s habit. I think creative people figure out how to do it no matter what. They wiggle their lives around it and it around their lives and it’s different for each of us.
But it is also changing for me as the years go by. I care about different things. I see different things. I need different things. I used to like to fly later in the day. Now I love to go up early in the morning. There is a particular light at that time that speaks to me.
And, yeah, I remember college classes. I demanded/asked/begged, whatever you want to call it, that the Dean at St. John’s change my early morning Math class to some other time so that I could take a dance class. Couldn’t think without the dance class. Math at 8:30am? I think not!
August 4, 2013 at 4:12 pm
The 5-7 AM time span seems immense to me too. Seven is civilized; five is barbaric.
I never had 8:30 math class (or any other math class) in college (no required courses, except in your major, at the time). However, I did have an 8:30 AM art class on the other side of campus, and I couldn’t wait to get there in the morning.
August 4, 2013 at 4:14 pm
Giselle Minoli i remember before the lap top days how hard it was to organize to write. one needed paper, a few pens and a waist paper basket with a circumference of sufficient size to enable the balled up papers to enter cleanly and hitting “nothing but net.” Now I find I can usually write something almost any time, or at least edit what I wrote the day before. Except after work when for some reason, with my shoes off and some prosecco in my hand, my brain’s creative focus laughs at me sarcastically and says something like “don’t be ridiculous.” OR – “sorry, ain’t happenin’ “
maybe some day, after I’ve become a world famous novelist, I will awaken at a set time, have my coffee and write creatively while looking out of the window at all that stuff you spoke about in your post. for now, it’s just open the lap top at lunch and try to tap out a few paragraphs. . .
August 4, 2013 at 4:19 pm
Hmmm Bill Abrams. The “fringes of habits.” This gives me a whole new subject to free associate about. And,Yes, you are right. Manicured laws up against a sea of poison ivy. Trimmed hedges fighting off the forest. The woods just on the other side of the fence. Keeping certain things in. Keeping other things out.
You always bring with you some wise, thoughtful and interesting observation. “My creative times also seem to be around transitions…” I love those moments of sliding in and out of different moods and spaces. It is one of the reasons I like extreme weather. And living in places where there are distinct seasons. Time doesn’t aimlessly drift from one day, one week, one month, one season to another. It shifts in and out of, like driving a manual transmission car…like flying a plane.
My personal bugaboo…there is no “better” time. Only a different one methinks…
August 4, 2013 at 4:21 pm
Written with the discipline of a surgeon Brian Altman. Only one of the things I love about you.
August 4, 2013 at 4:55 pm
Michael A Koontz…maybe it’s not the time of day that matters in the least. Maybe it’s the silence. And the silence as 4:00am is just as silent as the silence at 10:00 when everyone is asleep. I agree that the inspiration comes at any hour of the day. Perhaps manifesting it is a different thing for some people. I know painters who retreat into their studios after their breakfast and don’t emerge again until lunch, after which they once again disappear, only to re-emerge for the final time for dinner. Ah, what a live. Long life the Writer’s Colony, which does this for writers who cannot find that singular solitude.
And, although it is a different subject, I think it is a different story altogether for women who are mothers. Virginia Woolf. A Room of One’s Own. Yes. A Must-Have.
August 4, 2013 at 5:54 pm
Giselle Minoli did I write “fringes of habits?” I don’t think so, but your rephrasing is so contagious, it is like an army of ants nibbling at my brain while I try to shake them off and type.
August 4, 2013 at 6:00 pm
Luis Roca life, art and the creation of both are much more messy and mutable than anyone would like to admit. I need structure. I crave structure. But I also crave throwing it away when necessary. There is the Zen garden, all ordered and perfect from every angle. There is the British garden and the Rock garden and the Cactus garden, each suited to its environment and its particular culture and the people who gave birth to that culture. There is also the wildflower meadow, hidden from view, stumbled upon by the fortunate on an afternoon’s hike in the mountains…with it’s own rhyme and reason, it’s own order, it’s own particular manner of coming into being.
I thought of one of my favorite places on Earth, Horse Thief Meadows, high up in the Sangre de Cristo mountains atop Santa Fe, New Mexico, when I read your response. Indeed. Morning Pages become something else, which become something else, which in turn, gives birth to some other kind of Pages at some other time of day.
The balance between discipline and unfettered spontaneous creativity. The balance between the planned and the unplanned. The balance between the organized and the hodgepodge. Cycles recycled. It is all there within us and necessary to the creative process. At least I think so. We are no two of us alike.
August 4, 2013 at 6:02 pm
Ugg…such a typo Bill Abrams. Forgive me. But perhaps not such a wretched one if it’s contagious? In a good way I hope???? 😉
August 4, 2013 at 6:11 pm
Let’s not forget music in the NY subways Giselle Minoli I don’t play there but it never ceases to amaze me how millions of commuters ignore some great musicians.
August 4, 2013 at 6:22 pm
Giselle Minoli no need to apologize. Got me thinking of how I leapt from geography to chronology and how you then introduced the possibility they might both be tied into psychobiology, from there I wandered down a short path of genetics and back to birth times.
Meanwhile all the time thinking of the best approach to wildlife at a habitat interface. Does one best approach from the crowded side rather than the open – from inside the forest rather than the field? Or is that just my visual bias speaking? Perhaps downwind and downstream is always a better approach..
Which (of course) led me to thinking of how best to understand people (who could be said to be found at the interface of their inputs and their outputs or, as writers, between their sources and their copy) Does one look at their source material like biographers or at their output like critics?
(Welcome to the ant farm between my ears.)
August 4, 2013 at 6:28 pm
Well, Bill Abrams we pilots prefer to face into the wind. Which rather implies some sort of squint and a protection for the eyes. Which doesn’t, of course, mean one sees any less clearly, but there is that lean into it aspect of things. Personally, I rather like being lost in a forest and suddenly coming upon a clearing. Although I do, indeed like looking at forests. I just prefer not being in them too long. It’s a claustrophobia thing.
What does that say about me as a creative person? As a writer? I haven’t a clue. Certainly not that I need the sun on my face, else I would be a Cheever like Denis Labelle. Or maybe that I need both – the Daylight (the clearing and the meadow) and the Night time (the forest and the woods).
Welcome to my own ant farm. (Aren’t they mostly underground? I don’t fancy being underground. I shall have to rethink this entire convo.)
August 4, 2013 at 6:37 pm
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August 4, 2013 at 8:16 pm
Good Afternoon Giselle Minoli Lovely essay. Isn’t chrono-biology fascinating! Though I am the consummate night owl, I find my first thoughts upon awakening, before I am fully conscious, my most insightful, and I try to capture them in some way. I love being up late at night, working on a project, or reading, alone with my thoughts under the starry sky, and sometimes, the moonlight.
August 4, 2013 at 11:57 pm
Mara Rose if we could just figure out a way not to have to sleep. Some people boast about only needing 4-5 hours. Sadly, I am not one of them. I used to survive on 6, but it was surviving not thriving. I won’t go back to those days. Everything was much harder when I got less sleep. Sigh. All the things we miss when we are dreaming.
August 5, 2013 at 12:32 am
Fascinating – proves there’s not one solution that fits everyone.
August 5, 2013 at 1:08 am
Greetings Walter Mason. You thought perhaps there might have been? 😉
August 5, 2013 at 3:14 am
You’re a such an eloquent and poetic writer. I always enjoy reading your words when I make it to G+.
Mike has always described me as both an early bird and a night owl. I agree with him. I’m not an afternoon person at all. I guess that’s in line with my personality. I’m a very extreme person and cannot do anything half ast. I push my limits to the max and, typically, don’t like anything in between.
I love the mornings because I feel a sense of freedom, high energy and certain intensity or drive when most are still sleeping. It’s empowering to me to get ahead of the game — to have created, prepared and accomplish a great deal before others even think about getting up. That served me well when I worked in the corporate world of Silicon Valley. I’d be at the office at 4 or 5am and by the time others started arriving I had done most of my day’s important work in just the 3 or 4 hours I had the entire office all to myself with no interruptions of any kind.
I love nights because night time brings out my mellow side. I’m able to think clearly and look deeper within myself to do more creative things like write poetry at times. I could never write poetry in the mornings as I don’t feel the same kind of inspiration I experience at night. Nothing like candlelight, good music and a glass of red wine to unleash my creative side at night. Ciao.
August 5, 2013 at 10:19 am
Ciao Amira Elgan It’s 6:00am and I’m responding to your comment because the Response Muses announce themselves any time they please. But, Yes, your words made me smile because Get Things Done Mode is certainly different than Explore and Discover Mode.
I wrote a staggering, and I do mean staggering, amount of material for Christie’s (staggering even to me, the writer) and the only way to do that was to marshall the forces of time…long, long hours. Were there times of the day when the words were better, when they flowed more freely? Not really. But certainly by the end of the day it was as struggle, not because time lent itself to a different issue morning, afternoon, evening, but because the sheer volume of words would become a weight on the brain by then. A runner cannot run the same speed all day long (and a recent study suggests that women get more benefit from exercise in late afternoon! But I digress…).
Perhaps my own habits are in response to the continual challenge of Do This in the Next Five Minutes. There is a decided difference to what I write when there isn’t a gun pointed to my head. Although Muses, when insistent, can use their own weapons to get what they want.
Have a grand time in Italy, Amira. It’s always nice to meet you along the road.
August 5, 2013 at 2:09 pm
This is a great stuff. I am not a creative person, but like Mr. Murakami, my favorite author, start working at 4 am is intense and like Mr. Fitzgerald start typing the first letter at 5 pm is unimaginable.
August 5, 2013 at 4:20 pm
Atsushi Sugiyama …”start typing the first letter at 5pm is unimaginable.” Thank you for giving me a big smile. Indeed, for me writing creatively at 4:00am would be equally unimaginable. I wonder if it’s cultural. Or might possibly have something to do with one’s cultural cuisine, which is an amusing idea…
August 5, 2013 at 5:57 pm
The quoted passage below is a tease from Mason Currey’s ( Daily Rituals ) blog. More fascinating however is the 15-part series he wrote for Slate, the first of which is here: http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/culturebox/features/2013/daily_rituals/daily_rituals_life_hacking_tips_from_novelists_painters_and_filmmakers.html
(I knew this stuff sounded familiar to me.)
Franz Kafka, frustrated with his living quarters and day job, wrote in a letter to Felice Bauer in 1912, “time is short, my strength is limited, the office is a horror, the apartment is noisy, and if a pleasant, straightforward life is not possible then one must try to wriggle through by subtle maneuvers.”
Kafka is one of 161 inspired, and inspiring, minds—among them, novelists, poets, playwrights, painters, philosophers, scientists, and mathematicians—whose daily routines and rituals are recorded in these pages. Like Kafka, they worked in the face of countless obstacles (some of them self-inflicted) and developed a fascinating range of “subtle maneuvers” to get their work done each day, from waking early to staying up late, drinking vast quantities of coffee to taking long daily walks and precisely timed naps. Thomas Wolfe wrote standing in the kitchen, using the top of the refrigerator as his desk, dreamily fondling his “male configurations.” Jean-Paul Sartre chewed on Corydrane tablets (a mix of amphetamine and aspirin), ingesting ten times the recommended dose each day. Descartes liked to linger in bed, his mind wandering in sleep “through woods, gardens and enchanted palaces” where he experienced “every pleasure imaginable.”
Here are: Anthony Trollope, who demanded of himself three thousand words each morning (250 words every fifteen minutes for three hours) before going off to his job at the postal service, which he kept for 33 years during the writing of more than two dozen books; George Balanchine, who liked to do his own laundry and who did most of his “work” while ironing; George Gershwin, who worked for twelve hours a day, from late morning to midnight, composing at the piano in pajamas, bathrobe, and slippers.
August 6, 2013 at 12:00 pm
Apologies, Bill Abrams for how long it took me to get to your great contribution to this thread. Thank you. Clearly we all ought to read Daily Rituals. How fascinating, from the information about Wolfe, which I have to share with my stepson as he did his thesis in College on Wolfe, to George and His Ironing Board to Descartes.
I myself write my “professional” work at my big Indian desk, replete with all my technology and surrounded by my phones and books and notepads and pens and pencils and whatnot. My personal creative work is done either in a particular chair I have by the Living Room window outside of which is a lovely tree, or upstairs, after I’ve made my bed, sitting propped up, laptop open with absolutely nothing to distract me.
Before I even get there, however, I walk around the house talking to myself. Yes, I iron. Yes, I do the dishes. Yes, I Swiffer. Yes, I chop, I cook, I clean. I prune the roses. I take the trash to the dump. I sweep the garage. I brew and boil, and roil and think and write in my brain. And then I sit down. Somewhere quiet. With no one around. Any time of day, really. But my favorite time is always the evening.
‘Cept now, when I am thanking you and saying Hello to everyone.
August 6, 2013 at 5:16 pm
Hi Giselle Minoli. If it’s serious or more than a couple of paragraphs, I’m either on a desktop or a note pad (often I do drafts of professional work on stiff-backed, yellow-papered pads (although I’ve recently discovered the sheer luxury of pads of fine-laid, 24-pound, stationery – the scratch of the pen and the trail of the ink as it follows the undulating surface has the effect of encouraging me to bring my best game)). And mostly, I’m alone in the room I’m writing in. I’ve tried laptops, and although I’d like them to join the writing tool team, the keys just don’t have the travel of typewriters or desktops and they encourage positions other than the upright one I seem to need for serious work.
As to Daily Rituals , I’d suggest reading the Slate series first. It will either whet your appetite or sate it. The nice thing is that it is complete so that you can read several entries at a sitting.
August 6, 2013 at 6:52 pm
Bill Abrams, sigh…but due to the damage to my right basal thumb joint from years and years of making fine jewelry (actually a surgeon removed it), my writing by hand days are well behind me. Without a laptop I couldn’t write at all. What is a bane to some is pure poetry and heaven to me. I couldn’t live without it. I can no long hold anything between my thumb and right forefinger. But Steve Jobs fixed that. Blissfully!
August 6, 2013 at 9:10 pm
Ouch! I guess that limits jewelry production too, no? I imagine you’ve played around with learning how to hold a pen differently. What challenges life provides each of us.
August 6, 2013 at 9:20 pm
Giselle Minoli The more I think about it, the larger your challenge becomes. Holding a knife, tying a shoe, opening a jar, buttoning a blouse. How inconvenient that one’s body decides to up and do these things.
August 6, 2013 at 9:26 pm
The defining moment, Bill Abrams, for not being able to take the pain anymore, which was the signal to my surgeon to operate, was when I could no longer tweeze my eyebrows. Ah, vanity. But, if you do think about it, not being able to do that is significant…because it’s the same thing as not being able to hold a pen…