James Barraford I, too, along with many people I know, am in complete agreement with your dismay at our cry for an Execution, Off With His Head And Let’s Be Done With It demeanor. Yes, 9/11 was the tidal turn for that attitude. I watched it from New York, where we New Yorkers for the most part were not for the Shock and Awe that much of the rest of the country was for. It happened in our City and we were not crying for blood. Perhaps that is because in New York City we live with an extraordinary degree of peace and civility among all mixed together races and religions and creeds and peoples, from all over the world, and it is difficult under those circumstances to turn – after morning Yoga class next to a Muslim – and denounce all Muslims. It is difficult to walk down the street and feel superior to any one “kind” of person, to judge and denounce any one “kind” of person. It is a place of almost magical tolerance given the close proximity and wild differences between inhabitants.
Perhaps that is because we know how precious peace is and how hard to come by understanding is, and that once one lights a torce to those things, they can be very difficult, if not impossible, to get back. New York has seen its days of rioting and hatred and it isn’t pretty.
My suspicion, James Barraford, having gone through 9/11 and watched the Boston Marathon nightmare on television like so many other people, is that we have made it impossible for anyone to speak out and say, “Let’s not become the problem. Let’s not hate haters. Let’s not kill killers. Let’s be the civilized country with laws that some want to see destroyed.” Because those who say these things, who believe this way, are often now accused of being anti-patriots, of being passive, of not caring about our Mother Country. Those who believe in gun-control are called stupid and naive. Those who are against the death penalty are called wusses.
So people say and do things in order to fit in and to avoid having fingers pointed at them. I think it is extremely difficult in this particular case to show anything that could be interpreted as empathy toward this disturbed and misguided young man. God forbid anyone wants to know what happened in his life to get him to this point.
The crowd, gathered as they were at the one week memorial was awe-inspiring and of a mind and weeping together.
But sometimes the crowd can also be very dangerous…and know not what it encourages.
Okay…now everyone can skewer me. I’m ready…
Thank you, Jamie.
April 24, 2013 at 1:24 am
I am not going to skew you,,,,, as I stand with you!
April 24, 2013 at 1:26 am
Thank you Sheila B. DuBois…yet James Barraford has more courage than I….
April 24, 2013 at 1:27 am
I agree with you wholeheartedly Giselle Minoli
April 24, 2013 at 1:28 am
Giselle Minoli I was very reluctant to hit publish two hrs ago. Not because I don’t stand behind my words, but because there are some unbalanced people out there. On top of that, I expect a reaction from some that I have real life interaction with.
April 24, 2013 at 1:30 am
I understand James Barraford. Then perhaps it’s appropriate for me to say that what your essay represents – to me – is the concept of balance. And perspective. And thinking about what we are doing and how we are behaving ourselves. An eye for an eye is a concept many of us never understood. Does it work anyway???
April 24, 2013 at 1:32 am
Hi, Jack C Crawford. James Barraford you are naughty. When I responded on The Cultural Purveyor I didn’t realize that Share Publicly meant it would go out as a separate post. I somehow naively thought my comment would be Public back on your post…although now that I think of it that would be a neat trick Google hasn’t introduced yet. Not to worry. Bring it on…whatever it is…
April 24, 2013 at 1:34 am
Giselle Minoli Google just introduced new G+ commenting system at places such as mine. Sorry
April 24, 2013 at 1:34 am
Actually, I’ve not really heard anyone say he shouldn’t get a trial. I thought the discussion was largely what kind of trial.
April 24, 2013 at 1:36 am
So these is James Barraford post on the blog! You are very brave….. We have a system in place for a reason and both of you understand it 🙂
April 24, 2013 at 1:36 am
I might disagree with you on some things, but I respect and support your right to say whatever you like on your wall, my wall, anyone’s wall. You have a voice for a reason, and writing it out often is how we make sense of our inner turmoil. Probably we’re all learning things about ourselves as we hear thoughts come out of our faces or see them come through our keyboard, for good, ill, or a bit of both. I certainly don’t ever want my life and social media feeds to be filled with carbon copies of me (even as wonderful as I am). A lot of people have to sort these events out still, even the wizened New Yorkers who were around for the trade center attack(s). 🙂
April 24, 2013 at 1:38 am
Michael Rutherford I suspect that there will be waves of discussion about this as there was about McVeigh. There will be the Death Penalty issue. It will push every legal, moral, ethical, revenge, justice, cultural button we collectively have…
April 24, 2013 at 1:38 am
I think there’s a very good chance he’ll get life rather than an execution. You have his age. You have the possibility he could throw the entire thing on an older brother who more or less duped him into going along. He can effectively plea bargain down by providing much more info to the authorities. I see quite a few ways in which his lawyers can keep him off death row.
April 24, 2013 at 1:38 am
Giselle Minoli “I might disagree with you on some things, but I respect and support your right to say whatever you like on your wall, my wall, anyone’s wall.” You’re not the kind of person who would expect that everyone agrees with you on all posts. Being pro-execution absolutely does not equate with being anti-muslim. A nation that does execute murderers is certainly not uncivilized.
April 24, 2013 at 1:39 am
Well said, Giselle Minoli. And I might add that much of what you have said about New York also holds for us here in Boston. It would be an insult to us and all we have been through for him to get anything less than the open and just trial which is the right of every citizen.
April 24, 2013 at 1:40 am
Andy White that was so civilized and thoughtful of you and I (and I trust James Barraford) am grateful to you. I think you are the wise one here. Yes, writing it out is our way of working through the complex issues. The legal issues to me (with all due respect to Jamie) are in a way the simplest, because once identified there is nothing we can do about them. Our personal feelings and beliefs however…that is an entirely different kettle of fish.
April 24, 2013 at 1:42 am
Everyone wants him to get an open and just trial.
April 24, 2013 at 1:46 am
Cindy Brown I have thought that too and I rather hope you prove to be right. The age thing is disturbing…and even that is an issue unto itself. What, exactly, is the line past which we no longer forgive someone, past which they are not cut any slack. Legally it’s 18, but the line between 18 and 19 is negligible.
Craig Lennox thank you for weighing in. I can’t imagine what it must be like to be in Boston. Heart breaking and gut-wrenching because, as the Times said today, it is just beginning – the re-hab – for those poor people who were hurt.
Mark J Horowitz I just have a very, very, difficult time with the Death Penalty. I don’t understand it. I struggle with what it means. With what it accomplishes. With what we tell ourselves about it. With how we describe it. With who performs it, sanctions it, watches it. The whole thing. What a mess.
April 24, 2013 at 1:47 am
You’re still naughty James Barraford. But I forgive you.
April 24, 2013 at 1:48 am
Mark J Horowitz Here we don’t interpret that to include the death penalty, however.
April 24, 2013 at 1:48 am
Well said Giselle Minoli, and great post James Barraford. Without a fair trial, what separates the civilised from the terrorists?
April 24, 2013 at 1:53 am
New York City is a different neighborhood for sure. The Marathon Booming was terrible but death can’t always be the answer for there will never be an end to it all.
April 24, 2013 at 1:57 am
I do hope everyone has read James Barraford article on The Cultural Purveyor and will comment there as well…I hadn’t realized I was posting this public and think his article is absolutely spot on.
April 24, 2013 at 2:01 am
Giselle Minoli I tried but it won’t let me ?
April 24, 2013 at 2:29 am
I wanted to thank everyone who has responded within this thread…. whether you agree with me or not isn’t relevant. That everyone here has kept it together and not gotten nasty is really a wonderful thing. Several other threads from others sharing have been kept civil as well. It makes me grateful that my honesty hasn’t blown up in my face…. yet 🙂
April 24, 2013 at 2:32 am
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April 24, 2013 at 2:34 am
James Barraford your welcome!
April 24, 2013 at 2:37 am
Cindy Brown and Giselle Minoli since these are federal charges and pleads down to life in prison, there is no chance for parole and he will most likely be confined to solitary for the rest of his life. For many, that might be a worse punishment than death.
So, what is more human? I’m not sure I know…
April 24, 2013 at 2:40 am
It might be better to stop even considering whether anyone would call you anti-patriotic or some such. Someone would always call you something, it isn’t worth bothering about.
April 24, 2013 at 2:41 am
Giselle Minoli To be honest I don’t fully understand the new commenting system. I had no idea that if you respond publicly at my post that it makes your response effectively a reshare. I suppose it’s Googles way to expand their reach. I would say in the future to only list who you want seeing your comments on a story of mine if you don’t want it shared as a reshare. I don’t want people to not comment because they are afraid of that happening.
April 24, 2013 at 2:43 am
Lena Levin I get called anti-patriotic all the time. It’s sort of a badge of honor now. I know the real story so that’s okay.
April 24, 2013 at 2:45 am
James Barraford — I am “anti-patriotic” to at least two countries… so yes, it’s a badge of honor.
April 24, 2013 at 4:57 am
You are a confident person Lena Levin but I think many people have a harder time saying what the believe…perhaps more so in certain parts of the country…
April 24, 2013 at 4:59 am
So…James Barraford you are the encouragement everyone needs to always speak/write one’s mind…
April 24, 2013 at 6:15 am
Giselle Minoli and James Barraford I agree with both of you. Excellent posts and comments. Thank you for speaking out.
April 24, 2013 at 7:14 am
I myself often have to remind myself not to give in to primeval impulses when life triggers strong emotional responses in me. I guess impulse control is the word here. And I know from lots of firsthand experience how emotions can be overwhelming and consume one and one’s better senses. I found it to very reassuring and comforting to see so many people on this thread and on James’ original blog post respond with careful consideration and in a civil manner. All is not lost, although some media and some vocal individuals might suggest otherwise.
The part I still haven’t gotten over and probably won’t is to see how some parties within society and in particular in government readily exploit these horrendous events to push their political agenda. I find that response even more despicable than any of the emotional impulses we had to witness since last week. For here – emotional – there is a common ground we can all understand as sentient beings, while there – in the political arena – a certain degree of cynicism seems to be at work when one dissociates oneself in the blink of an eye to press on with this or that agenda.
As to the two suspects, I can only hope that a continued, thorough investigation prior to due process will give us some insight into a situation I currently regard as disconnected dots of “info” that do little more than deliver grounds for rich speculation and yield very little real information, if at all. One might argue that it doesn’t matter much to know what specific background led up to the events, but I would have to strongly disagree on this. In fact, I demand authorities to give the public a complete and conclusive narrative that sheds some light on the coming about of all this horror and pain, so we all might stand a chance of becoming aware of its precursors and maybe even get to do our bit to avert such things to happen in the future again. (the latter might be wishful thinking at this moment, but a certain awareness in the general public for the environment that breads violence and to watch out for precursing events or parameters that ultimately inflict horror upon innocent people might be a due learning process after 9/11 and Boston). I am shocked and really angry to witness, how much inconclusive and contradictory noise that dresses as info is doled out via the mainstream and other media. Due process for sure, but a thorough education of the general public along with it!
Other than that, I feel James on speaking out. I’ve battled a lot myself over the past few days, whether or not I should express my authentic thoughts as to the events and the unfolding story. Sure scared away some Facebook “friends” on account of it, but oh well…
April 24, 2013 at 7:33 am
“The shock and horror was compounded by the fact that we had no one to put on trial.” Bush, Rumsfeld, Cheney et al knew that and exploited it to the full. They knew fear was going to be profitable in so many ways. It didn’t take long for that fear to grow roots, turn into paranoia and become entrenched in many American minds. Bravo, James Barraford for writing this. You and Giselle Minoli represent the kind of Americans the rest of the world respects – sensible, compassionate, fair-minded.
Being labelled anti-patriotic isn’t such a bad thing when you consider the kind of people who call themselves patriots these days.
April 24, 2013 at 10:31 am
Giselle Minoli I’m not about to stop writing what is on my mind. That doesn’t mean that I’ll use Cultural Purveyor to be controversial, but there will a time here and there where I write stories like this. Some of us were born to be pains in the asses. I’ve accepted that I am one.
April 24, 2013 at 11:13 am
Ted Dumbauld I write about freedom often and have for James Barraford in his old (now defunct) Media Tapper. Freedom is for me the/a driving force. Without it we are, what? I could answer that question with so many words. Life in prison is unimaginable to me and, Yes, is supposed to be a deterrent to crime. Is it? I don’t know the statistics any more. And I wonder what the effect would be on such a person as this young man. Violent prisons have their own “justice system,” which we know, but that is an entirely different conversation…
April 24, 2013 at 11:21 am
Giselle Minoli There is no such thing as deterrent. I see it everyday. The revolving wheel of the same cast of characters. Sometimes it’s circumstances that are the result of an unfortunate birth lottery, sometimes it’s the greater environment as they grow up, sometimes it’s the lack of proper schools and/or training. If I had a dollar for everytime I’ve heard someone say “you won’t see me again.”
April 24, 2013 at 6:10 pm
All things considered I feel sorry for what the authorities must be doing to him right now in the name of our “freedom”. I don’t care what the justification for torture is. The rule of law, and due process, must be maintained if we are to live in a free and open society.
April 24, 2013 at 8:21 pm
Hi Craig Lennox Where is here and who are we? 🙂
April 24, 2013 at 8:29 pm
Lasse Sørnes could you elaborate, please? I am aware of the case, but am not sure how to interpret your comment. That he was “sane?” That 21 was enough of a sentence, not enough? That he smirked? That he got away with it? I’m not sure what you mean exactly…
April 24, 2013 at 11:25 pm
I’m still not seeing anyone saying he shouldn’t get a trial. Again, the only discussion I’ve seen is what kind of trial. I’m not seeing anyone call anyone else unpatriotic for any reason.
I see people that have no sympathy for him or how he got into this mess. But, that’s about it.
April 24, 2013 at 11:53 pm
The issue Michael Rutherford is whether or not he would be seen as an “enemy combatant” and therefore subject to a Military Tribunal or if it would be the kind of trial most of us are familiar with. Just one oft-repeated quote: “Authorities have decided to question Tsarnaev, a naturalized American citizen, without reading him his Miranda rights, which isn’t sitting well with some civil rights advocates. However, a group of Republicans said over the weekend that Tsarnaev shouldn’t even have those rights. In a joint statement on Saturday, Senators John McCain, Lindsey Graham, Kelly Ayotte, and Rep. Peter King demanded that he be treated as an ‘enemy combatant.’ ‘The accused perpetrators of these acts were not common criminals attempting to profit from a criminal enterprise, but terrorists trying to injure, maim, and kill innocent Americans,’ they wrote, adding that Tsarnaev ‘clearly is a good candidate for enemy combatant status. We do not want this suspect to remain silent.’”
So…regardless of the status of this today, there is in fact much conversation not only about how this man should be treated, but how he should be viewed…all of which determines the scope of his “rights” under the Constitution. I am not a lawyer, but this “chatter” certainly filters down into the collective conversation. That, to me, is a pertinent issues….
April 24, 2013 at 11:59 pm
Michael Rutherford this interview between the aggressively brainless Ann Coulter and the brainlessly aggressive Sean Hannity is truly frightening. Yes, she is suggesting that he not get a trial. She is suggesting that he should have been shot up in the boat and entirely prevented from having a trial. Listen:
http://mediamatters.org/blog/2013/04/23/fox-news-swings-from-uninformed-to-unhinged-to/193744
April 25, 2013 at 12:01 am
I get that Giselle Minoli. And that’s my point about the trial. Not if there is a trial. Just what kind of trial. Also, some of the enemy combatant concern had to do with collecting other information about other planned acts. Once you take the path of the criminal justice system, you now likely only communicate through lawyers. There will probably be no more information gathering regarding other related or planned activities.
However, it seems now that the consensus is that these two acted alone. So, maybe there isn’t a strong concern any longer regarding intelligence gathering.
April 25, 2013 at 12:16 am
Truly frightening is right! We have our share of such media, some of which should rather be called populist and propagandistic, which means they’re taking little or zero information and fabricate a thicket of speculation and hateful vigilantism which then is on the table and can’t be ignored from then on any more. It’s almost like fiction writing. It’s really a very frightening, dystopian pattern that they employ – and successfully so… (in my country. And I see something similar going on in some mainstream media at the moment. Very disturbing!)
Because : “In sum, Hannity incorrectly claims that ethnicity and an unspecified “secret plot,” along with one brother’s practice of praying five times a day, YouTube videos, and trip to Russia are enough to classify the accused bomber as an “enemy combatant.” And if enough people buy into it, then undoubtedly the support is there to become quicker and quicker in labelling someone a terrorist, which then will lead to removing them from access to a fair trial or even just investigation. I find those claims to rather shoot them right in the boat to be a regression to primordial/Old Testamentarian times… Clearly, the US citizens can’t want that for their country, can they? (Please tell me they don’t….)
April 25, 2013 at 12:51 am
Hannity and Coulter are basically talk show hosts. They have a right to their opinion. But, they are not part of the government or legal system. People out of Hollywood say some awfully stupid things also.
And, the concern regarding collecting intelligence, was a legitimate concern. As I said earlier, the consensus seems to be that they acted alone. So, there may be no intelligence to collect.
April 25, 2013 at 1:09 am
Matthew Graybosch that fact that you don’t have any sympathy for this man, along with your reasoning for assuring him a fair trial under the US Constitution is exactly what this post is about. While Hannity and Coulter are basically talk show hosts, Michael Rutherford, talk show hosts, celebrities and people with a wide-ranging public voice hold a lot of sway with people who cannot or do not want to think for themselves. There is a decided difference in a military tribunal and the kind of trial that most Americans are familiar with. Hopefully we can agree to disagree on this one?
April 25, 2013 at 1:18 am
Giselle Minoli I’m not sure I’m disagreeing. I was concerned about the intelligence aspect. If they were part of a group and there were more events planned, I assume most people would really like to know that to prevent it. I think a standard criminal trial is fine. Although a point about how our legal system operates that bothers me, is that defense lawyers are not trying to make sure their clients get a fair trial. They are trying to get their clients off at any cost. But, that’s another argument. And, in any case, I’d rather have our legal system than anyone else’s.
And yes, talk show hosts, celebrities etc, do hold a lot of sway. I wish they’d all shut up. My opinion is just as important as theirs. But because someone stared in a movie, they seem to have acquired some level of professional knowledge in the minds of many people.
April 25, 2013 at 1:19 am
Mark J Horowitz “Here” is the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, which has not executed a person since 1947.
April 25, 2013 at 1:26 am
Apparently we didn’t have that ability, knowledge or know-how Matthew Graybosch. Instead, we invaded an entire country and killed untold numbers of innocent people – all to “Shock and Awe” the world. Whatever prevailed to take this young man alive was my hope (I posted about it watching the whole thing unfold), so that we don’t go down that road. Perhaps it’s easier to “go down that road” in a foreign country? I don’t know. Yes I do believe the brainless and the aggressive have an equal right to an opinion. It is the content of their opinions and the wide radio signal range of the reach of them that I find disturbing.
April 25, 2013 at 1:48 am
And here I was thinking it was because they wouldn’t have been able to handle the firestorm that might have resulted had they taken him alive….
April 25, 2013 at 1:56 am
I was going to suggest that Matthew Graybosch 🙂 But, again, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
April 25, 2013 at 2:36 am
Wan Nan You are suggesting that “Authorities give the public a complete and conclusive narrative that sheds some light on the coming about of all this horror and pain”. There is no justification for terrorists’ murdering innocent civilians. There were folks who tried that (blaming United States policies for 9/11). It did not work then and it will not work now, regarding the Boston Marathon incident. The reason that it doesn’t work is that it is utterly absurd.
ie. Somebody mugs or rapes someone and one blames this act on his unfortunate, underprivileged childhood. Generally speaking, the immigrants who came to this country in the early part of the 20th century, came with little more than the clothes on their backs, yet they had good character and the great majority didn’t commit such crimes. A human being, the only creature on earth who is endowed with free will, bears responsibility for their actions, positive or negative, and must answer for them.
April 25, 2013 at 3:28 am
Mark J Horowitz the world is a vastly different place than it was at the turn of the Century. Has the world always been violent to one degree or another? So it is said. But we get no where if we do not understand other cultures. No one, particularly me, who wants some understanding of that is condoning any behavior by the asking of the question. I don’t personally have the sense that because Wan Nan isn’t willing to sanction shooting this person in the boat without a trial that this necessarily means he is innocent. But, to me at least, in our Democracy, there is due process of law, and a way to behave, and, Yes our Constitution to uphold. And he was and remains a citizen of the United States. I can abhor the things that he has done and uphold his right to be tried in a particular way and those things are not contradictory. In fact, I think they are mutually supportive. I think Coulter’s and Hannity’s POVs are in an of themselves very much against our Democracy.
April 25, 2013 at 3:48 am
I don’t know.
I remember pretty much the same reaction toward McVeigh. And we did ultimately execute him.
(I am not disagreeing with your sentiment, only that I think the attitude you note is not new from 9/11).
April 25, 2013 at 4:00 am
Giselle Minoli Understanding other cultures is important and desirable. Shooting that person in the boat and having a trial, the way I see things, don’t belong in the same sentence. In the gun battle, earlier that day, between these two brothers and law enforcement officers, these two brothers were firing and throwing bombs at the officers. Should the head of the police have announced “Hold your fire; let’s give these gentlemen a trial’? Trials take place after an alleged criminal is apprehended, not during a gun battle.
As I said in an earlier comment, there is no question that he should get a fair and open trial just like any other citizen. He is innocent until proven guilty.
April 25, 2013 at 4:01 am
Cindy Brown it is true that McVeigh came first. Perhaps wrongly I make the distinction that he was born in America. He, too, was called a terrorist (that words seems to be flung around), but the circumstances of his life and his rage against America strike me as being quite different from the brand of terrorism brought here from abroad. We did indeed execute him and I still query capital punishment. I wish it were a black and white issue for me as it seems to be for so many, but it is not.
April 25, 2013 at 4:09 am
Giselle Minoli A terrorist either harms or injures innocent civilians, or both. The circumstances of his life or rage are irrelevant. The media has glamorized them as “freedom fighters” but that’s not really where it’s at. Murder is a crime and justice is a very good thing. Without it, people would eat each other alive.
April 25, 2013 at 4:11 am
I would say that they are only irrelevant if one is not interested in those issues. I personally am Mark J Horowitz. And if we are to work to prevent increasing incidences, we must be interested in my view.
April 25, 2013 at 4:19 am
McVeigh blew up the Oklahoma City Federal building for political reasons, which means he fits the legal definition for a terrorist.
Since there does not appear to be an explicit political motive in the Boston bombing and since one of the brothers was a naturalized citizen, I consider them closer to Columbine (indeed, they may also match the Harris/Klebold dynamic) than to Oklahoma City.
April 25, 2013 at 4:24 am
Cindy Brown I had not categorized McVeigh’s hatred of our government as a “political reason,” but rather his personal disgruntlement, which was significant. The Columbine incident strikes me more in line with Virginia Tech and Sandy Hook and Aurora…
April 25, 2013 at 4:35 am
If you read through McVeigh’s wiki entry (and follow the citations), there’s plenty there to comfortably categorize him as a domestic terrorist.
April 25, 2013 at 4:40 am
I am aware of the general characterization Cindy Brown, but to me, notwithstanding the same noun used to describe him and the two brothers, there are distinct and important differences between the two and I personally am not comfortable rolling them together with the use of the word terrorist. This, I suppose, is why I am so interested in background, motivation, age, etc. because, deconstructing it all out, these incidences are all different.
April 25, 2013 at 4:45 am
Um, I’m not arguing the two brothers fit the terrorist description. Based on the info we have so far, I don’t think they do. Or are you speaking more generally?
April 25, 2013 at 7:00 am
Mark J Horowitz Have you ever heard the expression “It takes two to tango”? The cause-and-effect phenomenon?
“There were folks who tried that (blaming United States policies for 9/11). It did not work then and it will not work now, regarding the Boston Marathon incident. The reason that it doesn’t work is that it is utterly absurd.”
It has everything to do with US foreign policies or else 9/11 simply wouldn’t have happened. I can’t begin to wrap my mind around, how some people succeed in turning a blind eye on that and stay in complete denial over the fact that our administrations’ policies – over there as well as here – have shaped the world we live in today. For as long as you divide people into “good vs. evil” without acknowledging that both qualities are in everyone at any given time, only in varying parts, so long we have these basic misconceptions of one party
beingfeeling superior to another in any case of conflict of interests. It is exactly this type of thinking that has intensified friction and open outbreak of wars all over the world.I personally think, we as sentient reflecting beings have an obligation to question our thoughts and actions at any moment in life, from first to last breath. Not doing so is equal to admitting that we’re just another breed of mammals hopelessly governed by our impulses.
You can’t possibly exempt the government from the concept and outcomes of such a thing as the “war on terror”. Before that, it was the Cold War era against the former Eastern block, before that it was war in Asia, before that the war against the British Empire. You can’t possibly call a part of the world “an axis of evil” as Bush coined it and afford yourself a moral high ground from that. There you went and nailed it…. I’m a hair away of thanking you for that high pass 😉
April 25, 2013 at 11:05 am
That “pathetic old man” was 54. Three whole years older than me. Pathetic in what manner… heading a terrorist organization responsible for the deaths of thousands?
The real issue with the death of OBL was that Pakistan allowed the US to carry out an action within their country. Someone in that gov’t had to know we were going in otherwise it’s an act of war. One could say it’s the least they could do after harboring him for the better part of a decade.
I don’t think the subject of whether OBL should have been taken alive and brought somewhere for a trial is neat and tidy. Besides the spectacle in the US, the far reaching consequences in the Middle East would have been explosive to the point of likely war engulfing the region in a much grander scale than now. I see it as we had two options…. send in a team and kill him or accept him living out in the open. A trial was never an option politically in the US and it was never an option for those wanting to live in peace in the Middle East…Muslim, Arab, Christian and Jew alike.
April 25, 2013 at 12:02 pm
Cindy Brown I disagree with the general assessment, Yes, of what it means to be a “terrorist” and that McVeigh’s motive was “political,” when it seemed to have been a grudge. Which is the reason I believe we do have to come to some understanding of the “why,” not only in order to identify future instances but to try to prevent them as well.
I so appreciate all of your comments…I have a busy schedule today and must be off….
April 25, 2013 at 1:49 pm
Thank you Wan Nan for that gentlemanly and well written comment. It deserves a good response and you will have it, as soon as possible.
April 25, 2013 at 2:08 pm
I am so grateful for the “gentle” and articulate and thoughtful men and women who converse with one another on my posts Wan Nan and Mark J Horowitz…
April 25, 2013 at 4:37 pm
Matthew Graybosch Listening to Barry Manilow will do that to a person.
April 25, 2013 at 7:09 pm
The fact is that the WHY this happened, WHEN they were “radicalized” (that is what it is being called), HOW the older brother influenced the younger brother, WHAT went on that made them go this direction in their lives is proving to be absolutely central to this investigation. Every single day I read articles in newspapers, journals and magazines about scientific studies on human behavior – our eating habits, love habits, study habits, exercise habits, work habits…our our behavior in everything we do. Why shouldn’t that effort to understand extend to the law and to the justice system? It must if we are to get along with cultures around the globe. Listen:
http://www.nytimes.com/video/2013/04/25/us/100000002191622/did-boston-suspect-slip-under-the-radar.html
April 26, 2013 at 7:49 am
Giselle Minoli There’s a good piece in Slate about the importance of Miranda rights, arguing that if the law got bent out of shape for Tsarnaev – therefore precluding a fair trial – it’s easier to bend out of shape for the rest of us (Americans) as well.
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/jurisprudence/2013/04/dzhokhar_tsarnaev_and_miranda_rights_the_public_safety_exception_and_terrorism.html
April 26, 2013 at 3:40 pm
Meg L as the days go by I am more and more disturbed by the entire militarization of the “event.” I will bet that we will never know what happened here, why the older brother was not watched more closely, what our relationship was with him, who the mysterious “Misha” is, why there is a picture of the younger brother straddling the side of the boat and then another robot-taken pix of him grievously wounded inside the boat…and beyond to, When? Next Week? Next Month? Next Year? What are the precedents that are being set? What are we condoning willingly? What are we going along with? What are we being told? What do we believe? Are we thinking for ourselves? Are we being spoon-fed information?
The whole thing bothers me…
It just reminds me of the unanswered questions surrounding 9/11 and what happened to the plane that hit the Pentagon and why none of the planes were intercepted. I’m not talking conspiracy stuff. I’m talking what are the concrete irrefutable answers stuff.
April 26, 2013 at 4:02 pm
Giselle Minoli there are issues I’m becoming uneasy about here. Things aren’t coming together in certain manners as at first thought. If he wasn’t armed, why the gunfire at boat?
Then there is shutting down a city for one person.
April 26, 2013 at 4:09 pm
Me, too James Barraford. This entire issue raises for me the greater issue of what psychologists call “closure,” something that I personally don’t think exists. It’s one thing for a parent to die of something like cancer, when within the sadness of it all one might very well be able to say goodbye so that when the person dies there is a sense of completeness. There’s no one to punish – we all die of something.
But in cases like this, where suddenly a little boy and two young women die and dozens of people are maimed and it’s senseless and completely random (in terms of who happened to have been unfortunate enough to be standing in the wrong place at the wrong time)…people often need closure – in the form of answers, justice…we got the “bad guy(s)!” And then, what? we can go back to normal? There is no closure. Those poor people still lost their loved ones and survivors have no limbs. But the thirst for closure can produce “answers” that only masquerade as “answers” but are in fact something else altogether.
April 26, 2013 at 4:15 pm
I want to plus your last comment over and over, Giselle Minoli . I almost stopped “speaking” about this and wondering very similar things as you are expressing, because people are so quick to denounce one as a conspiracist these days.
The one thing that bothers me the most is what Matthew Graybosch said and what I’ve been thinking myself pretty much from the beginning: Apparently, to some extent all this “intelligence” business is about secrecy and “careful” selection of what information is shared at what point and with whom. We, the public will most likely never hear the truth about it, not about 9/11, where a lot of things don’t compute or make sense, nor about these events.
It is the very notion of secrecy that bothers me the most. I understand that a secret service can’t be transparent as operations are being prepared or carried out. Maybe it’s the entire idea of such an authority to begin with that profoundly bothers me and increasingly so, as the outcomes of these activities threaten our civil liberties at a pace that I’d tend to describe as “choking democracy to death”. The rate at which due process and other cornerstones of free societies are being dismantled is frightening beyond words…. But , huh, one can’t even say that without being colored a conspiracist these days… I’m glad, there are people like you and the ones you attract to your stream, who still exercise their right to think and speak instead of giving in to a forged impulse or reflex….
I can’t believe all this…. all the craziness of our time and what shape the world is in…
April 26, 2013 at 4:23 pm
Wan Nan Matthew Graybosch and James Barraford…I think Jamie and Matthew know this (not sure) but Wan Nan you probably don’t..which is that my father was “accused” of being a Communist and there was an investigation of him and I spent years and years getting his dossier from the FBI and when I finally received it, it was almost 75% redacted. Even though my father had been dead since I was a child I was not allowed to have the unredacted file, which was subsequently “destroyed” without my having been told this was going to happen. I will have questions about why my verbal, brilliant, peace-loving and highly educated father was investigated for the rest of my life.
I would like to think that it isn’t just people like me who ask questions like this…but all of us. Our Constitution, the principles on which our country was founded, these are sophisticated concepts and need to be continually protected in order for them to survive. And the public needs to be continually asked to reflect on what we are being told and what we accept and what we believe. Otherwise we are not using the full power of our personal responsibility as democratic citizens. That is my view, at any rate.
April 26, 2013 at 4:29 pm
These last few posts have been brilliant. I’m on the fence writing a follow up on my blog. The conspiracist brush gets broad.
April 26, 2013 at 4:33 pm
Matthew Graybosch I look forward to our “interview” about Without Bloodshed. I am absolutely certain you and I are going to have a lot to talk about.
James Barraford ping us all, please, when you post???
April 26, 2013 at 6:05 pm
I am supposedly taking a digital sabbatical & am on my phone, so cannot plus one your individual comments this morning. But consider them plussed, Giselle, James, Matthew, Wan Nan.
Have a great weekend 😉
April 26, 2013 at 9:13 pm
Wow, Giselle Minoli ! No, I had no idea, of course. From what you’re telling us, your father became a victim of the McCarthy era and all the frenzy of that time. And now that I think about it, much of the manipulation of the media and the public and the denouncing of individuals etc. are pretty much visible in this “war on terror” again. And how is it that I’m sensitive to that? Because staying alert and never allowing something like this to happen again was drummed into us as part of our education and growing up almost every other day. An entire generation and many more to come inherited all the guilt and shame of the wrongdoings of one man and his followers whom he was able to instrumentalize in order to bring about millionfold tragedy and over an entire continent.
Before I digress any more: I may have mentioned this here before. When I saw those police dressed in black combat wear and all having assault weapons pointed at civilians, I instantly “knew” – or felt, rather – that this is what it must have looked and felt like for my ancestors during this horrible period of my country’s history. You encouraged me to express a view coming from someone overseas, and all I can say in this regard is that I watched history repeating itsself with my own eyes over the past week(s) – and it is being aired and streamed almost 24/7 since the bombing attacks.
On a side note, there is this particular “behaviour” of your media, which I only seem to have become aware of now. And I’d like to think and believe that it’s still a tad dinstinct from the media in my country. I remember being on my honeymoon in September 1997, when Princess Diana was killed in this car crash. Our honeymoon basically came to a complete halt for a day or two. How could you simply take your mind off of things, when every channel was being flooded with the images and stories surrounding her death and when everyone talked about nothing else? And when I think about it, much like with 9/11 and Boston, there wasn’t basically anything else but speculation going on in the first few days. Every self-declared expert and their dog got a minute of airtime to express – their view of things. How is this reporting? What does it have to do with journalism and looking for confirmed facts? But this was about 15 years ago. Now, media in my country don’t differ all that much from yours any longer.
The little story I began to share about my eBay snafu has possibly far reaching implications. Frankly speaking, it makes me very uneasy to think that fraudulent eBay transactions I and a fairly large number of people became victim of were later linked to funding of terrorist activities. It has me switch into a full blown panic attack to think that my name might now be linked to such activities in some file somewhere, of which I don’t even know, whether it exists, where it would exist and – worst of all – which I wouldn’t be given access to. After all, I only found out about two weeks ago that a second DA had an investigation going into this case and they hadn’t completed that investigation and closed the file until January 2012! In other words: Someone kept investigating me and this case for another one and a half years after the initial investigation – the one I knew about – had been completed and closed without evidence to my disadvantage. This is fact, it’s not paranoia or me going’ Mel Gibson in “Conspiracy Theory”. And it scares the living daylights out of me to now know how these things work. I have no way of finding out, whether any of this was being handed over to someone else upon their request and it drives me insane to know that we have tons of sleepers residing in this country and funding major operations in and from all parts of the world. Again: The first – personal – part is all factual reality and the second, sleeper-part, has been well documented on public media over and over. So anyone saying “conspiracy theories” to my face again, I’m going to stick their words up to where the sun never shines!!!!
Now that I have obtained some – very much unintended and unwelcome – personal insight into some of these things and how they work and adding more personal knowledge into intelligence and counterintelligence from a source I had some closer personal affiliation with for some time, it isn’t a stretch at all to at least consider that they may have been doing and keep doing that very thing with those unfortunate two subjects/suspects (their parents insisted from day 1 that their sons got framed and said so separate from each other. They have never changed their views as far as I know. There was only this uncle, whom the brothers and their parents had been out of touch with for several years. I think, we can safely disregard whatever he has to say). After all, both – the brothers – seem to be fairly intelligent people and from the moment they saw their faces on TV, I’d safely assume that the last thing on their mind will have been to wait another three days and then “casually” hijack someone’s car at gunpoint and head to New York to party!!!!???? My goodness, the crassness of this profoundly dumb suggestion is an insult to anyone with a brain….
Now, some might say, alright, he’s crossed the line. Conspiracist. I beg to differ: I don’t assume for one minute that all this was premeditated or planned. If it was, it was a lousy job. For all the contradictory “info” flying around simply doesn’t make any sense. Unless they think, all of the US have already turned into speaking, walking, working burger patties, they should be really making an effort to come up with something conclusive. Even all that background stuff doesn’t make one conclusive narrative and is full of contradictions and lacking any shred of credibility. At least for me. Maybe I’m overlooking something, in which case I’ll love to get enlightened about it.
Either way – this is not right. And I’m afraid it never will be. Because from what I see, secret services and intelligence authorities are basically legalized criminals protected by regulations that puts them above the law. Again – “secret” being the keyword here. Or else, other authorities, politicians of the government or probably even regular citizens might demand full disclosure and potentially take legal action. But how can you accomplish this without knowing the real facts…?
Now feel free to go and turn me in or slaughter me…
April 27, 2013 at 8:27 pm
http://amandapalmer.net/blog/20130421/
April 27, 2013 at 11:10 pm
I want a fair and open trial.
Empathy for what led him on the path of destruction?
I’m not down with that.
Reading that poem was akin to reading some schoolgirl who has never been to an inner city area writing first hand knowledge of what it’s like to deal with the daily gang violence.
I’m really irritated now after reading that.
April 29, 2013 at 3:30 am
Oh boy…I’m not going to comment on that poem except to say that I didn’t understand it.
April 29, 2013 at 3:51 am
You’re right Wan Nan The brothers didn’t plan this at all. One just realized that he was impotent and the other was insulted, in a very embarrasing way, the night before. So the next morning when they woke up they texted each other and said. “We are having a really sucky life and fuck the world. In an hour, the marathon is starting. I’m real angry, must be our unfortunate background or some cultural; we don’t care to figure it out.
April 29, 2013 at 3:55 am
cultural thing
April 29, 2013 at 4:05 am
Still mostly on digital sabbatical, but must say, the poem is not appropriate. Not to me. Sorry to comment & run. But I can’t appear to agree with it by my silence.
April 29, 2013 at 9:49 am
Have you seen me going sarcastic as to your comments, Mark J Horowitz although I disagreed ? Who gives you the right to take intellectual high ground, when In fact you haven’t read the critical passage in my comment correctly? And just interpreted the next random thing that crossed your mind into what I wrote?
Thank God, I don’t live in your country. What use are schools, libraries, education when this is the result of it…. ? Enjoy your arbitrary and martial law and your moral high ground over the rest of the world that you don’t understand one bit. I’m out. No use in discussing anything.
April 29, 2013 at 1:22 pm
Wan Nan I’m a very modest person but when I encounter such ideas and opinions, I have a right to express my superior intellectuality. Your bias against America has you saying that I don’t understand the rest of the world. That’s a very foolish statement. Thank G-d I live in America. BTW, you mentioned earlier that at one time, people aimed guns at the people in your country. Who are the people in your country? Who held the guns and when did this happen? Hey, so I was a bit sarcastic, I’m only human 🙂
April 29, 2013 at 1:26 pm
Gentlemen, anyone is welcome to express their opinions on my posts, no matter how diverse that opinion may be and no matter how opposite an expressed opinion may be from any other. Your disagreement with one another underscores my position that understanding how and why these two men went down the road they went down is key to being able to identify others who may go down that road.
Anger, rage, sarcasm…I rarely see these things facilitate communication…
April 29, 2013 at 2:10 pm
I want to add Mark J Horowitz and Wan Nan that I value your opinions equally.
April 29, 2013 at 2:22 pm
The skies of discourse hit pockets of turbulence sometimes.
April 29, 2013 at 2:30 pm
They do indeed James Barraford. However, I firmly believe that the commitment has to remain to have vigorous, energetic but always civilized discourse, otherwise we end up behaving like those whose behavior we claim we can’t fathom, don’t understand and are unable to relate to.
April 29, 2013 at 2:38 pm
When issues have an emotional impact, it is sometimes difficult to express ourselves purely on a logical level, difficult but not impossible. A good moderator brings us back to that logical plane of discourse.
April 29, 2013 at 2:49 pm
I wonder if the universal reaction to that poem played a part. I hope not. I’ve reread it several times and it still irritates me each time.
April 29, 2013 at 3:08 pm
Matthew Graybosch not for me to judge if its a poem. I’m sure many find me not a writer. I’m just commenting on my opinion of the “poem.”
April 29, 2013 at 3:25 pm
Reading your comments I am reminded of a conversation I had with my stepson some time ago about the state of affairs between Israel and Iran. I told him that I could close my eyes and imagine two young men, of the approximate same age, height, weight, hair and skin coloring, one living in Iran, one living in Israel, each with a girlfriend, each hoping to make something of their lives, go to school, buy a house, start a family, when one day either of their countries decides to attack the other, the possibility that one or both of them will be killed and their dreams for the future dashed forever a strong possibility.
When I look at this young man’s face this issue for me is not empathy/no empathy. The issue is that a 19 year old guy’s brain isn’t fully developed until around the age of 25. (I’m not going to plug in all the links…they are there for anyone to read) There is little awareness of cause and affect, little awareness of the impact of decisions on others, little “empathy” for others. This is what has always scared me about the military…that we put young men whose physical prowess is quite something at that age into war situations that they are psychologically, intellectually, spiritually and emotionally incapable of dealing with.
So…the great issue (to me) is not this particular young man, but about indoctrination in general, the creation of rage and anger in general, the circumstances that lead to this behavior. And it doesn’t matter to me whether the young man is from an area of Russian few Americans have heard of or if it is one of our own whose interior mind is working against him.
To say a 19 year old was fully conscious of what he was doing is sort of an absurd statement to begin with. We draw this invisible line at the age of 18: Now you are an adult, but in reality people remain “children’ for a long time after that.
April 29, 2013 at 9:44 pm
Giselle Minoli , the younger brother did not have a choice but to follow whatever his older brother ordered him. I think, the father said something to this effect at one point in an interview and I have it on good authority that this behaviour is a cultural thing. It wouldn’t have been right for the younger brother to stand up to his older brother, because in that culture, there is a strict patriarchic hierarchy, no matter what. Maybe the younger brother would have opposed his older brother, if he had been past the age of 25 as you say. I doubt it.
That leaves us with the older brother. He didn’t seem to have a good support system available to have his back. He said himself that he doesn’t have one American friend, because he didn’t understand them. I guess, he felt isolated. Isolation creates pressure. I find it possible and plausible someone got to him. Who this was and why and how remains subject to speculation. We will never know this, even if authorities do. To me, he seems to have been out on a limb on his own, isolated, under pressure (for conformity), disoriented, lonely. Does it justify the attacks? Absolutely not.
Mark J Horowitz I’d find it interesting to learn, what you base your intellectual superiority on. But let’s leave the pi**ing contest aside, as Giselle Minoli has called us to order in such charming ways (no sarcasm intended). I’m not sure, which part of what comment you are referring to when saying, I had mentioned someone pointing guns at people in my country. I am assuming you are talking about my response to the “lockdown” and patrolling of SWAT teams and such. I meant to say that these images were strong enough to conjure up ideas about what it might have felt like for my ancestors during WWII. In this context: I grew up during the Cold War. Not one week went by without siren drills for a nuclear raid (by the Warsaw Pact). I lived with the threat of getting nuked every day. Most people may have been able to be in denial about it, I wasn’t. I’ll never forget those years on end suffering from nightmares waking me up several times a night.
We had a nuclear base 7 miles from where I lived. US Army was basically part of my daily life (they were friendly fellows, we liked them). If the Cold War had escalated, the “old” German Federal Republic (prior to the Reunification) would have been a missing spot on the map within the first few hours of conflict. Even in case of an “only” conventional conflict, we would have been bombed off the planet within the first two days. I once took the liberty of casually mentioning this to a US solder stationed in Frankfurt during a weekend BBQ. He was getting ready to beat the living daylights out of me for it. I guess, he didn’t exactly appreciate the fact that noone had told him before that he was basically serving a job as front line cannon fodder – my bad. (just to prove, I know sarcasm, as well… ;))
As far as my anti-US bias: Not really. Politically maybe, to an extent as we didn’t exactly have the fortune of being indoctrinated with being the “good guys”. We’ll be the bad guys until the end of human history. That doesn’t go down without any effect. It’s only at moments like this, when I have to witness how quickly everyone settles for what the media say you are to believe. Because it boils down to belief. We will never know, what the FBI knew or didn’t know, when or how they may have failed in preventing the attack.
As far as the poem: I understood it as an attempt to switch perspectives and see it through the eyes of the person now known as suspect #2. Art should be free to do that. In fact, to me it’s a reminder that there are always two sides to every coin. We may not like that other side and we may feel “intellectually” or morally superior to it. Which is even stronger a reason to see things from every angle. I would like to stresss that I do not approve of the attacks, my goodness… I also agree that the remaining suspect should be brought to justice, of course. I don’t sympathize (too much) with anyone supporting or employing violence – in whatever shape or form. Much less, when it’s as heinously carried out as this. But as Giselle Minoli already suggested, he may not have been aware of the consequences. The testimonial of this Brazilian mechanic seems to support this. I have added, he was basically without a choice in this matter for reasons of a rigid understanding of patriarchy in that culture.
April 29, 2013 at 9:58 pm
Aaaaaand – b.t.w.: Isn’t it interesting that “The Sum of All Fears” just airs on one of our public TV channels as I’m typing this? (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0164184) The tale is told in a specific way. Very interesting.
April 29, 2013 at 10:07 pm
Wan Nan That post is in my top 5 favorite posts in my two years here. You are a welcome addition to my stream and I’m just impressed with your thoughts.
April 29, 2013 at 10:12 pm
You playin’ me, man, James Barraford ? (just kidding. exhale that I’m not being perceived as all crazy… for now LOL) P.S. Thanks for adding me, James Barraford
April 29, 2013 at 10:32 pm
Wan Nan I’m absolutely serious. I love reading how your thought process works out. Your experiences in cold war Germany add an interesting layer.
April 29, 2013 at 10:35 pm
Thanks, James Barraford . I appreciate that. As Giselle had encouraged me at some point to add a view that may be different from the common thread of discussion – and I’m aware that this is a broad generalization, which I usually try to stay away from… – I deemed it worthy to mention. My point basically being with this that I have known what it’s like to live with a continuous threat long before the war on terror was introduced into the global political agenda. (I say “global”, because it serves several global factions. Again, it’s interesting to notice, how quickly Putin offered to collaborate with the US on all things Chechnyan terror – when he apparently never responded to a previous FBI request on coming back with more information long before the actual Boston attacks…Can I say “two sides” again…?). In other words: I guess, I knew terror from early on. And don’t forget Mogadischu and the attacks on the Olympic athletes in Munich 1972 and the left wing extremist terror against bankers and politicians during the “RAF” era (Red Army Faction, an extremist left wing organization terrorizing the country for many years during the 70ies). Come to think: We’ve been a target for the bulk of the post WWII era. And now, our equivalent of the DHS – Innenministerium für Sicherheit – know of “sleepers” financing, planning and organizing and terrorist attacks from within my country and unfortunately also against targets in our country… I still think, it’s politically exploited. And that is the real dark side to all of this….
April 29, 2013 at 10:45 pm
James Barraford Wan Nan is a musician and so I got a laugh out of his metaphorical suggestion that you were playing him. I also think it’s interesting that you Wan Nan are a Jazz musician (correct me if I’m wrong)…a distinctly American art form that has many appreciators in Europe. Ah me and my female way of psychoanalyzing things from an artistic perspective. But I have grown up in the arts and even though I have a degree in philosophy it is the artistic perspective that interests me the most, in that they come often enough from a response to whatever is going on politically in any given culture, and also in that I can’t help noticing that those who are artistically inclined often seek to understand something on a universal level.
Sadly, from my own perspective, America is a young county. For most of us 9/11 was the worst we have ever experienced and it was isolate to one city in the space of but a few minutes and it was over. We have never been bombed like the city of London. There are no public buildings like there are all over Italy still pock-marked from war. The distance of time between the last war fought on our homeland and now is so great that unless one visits Gettysburg it’s easy enough to imagine it never happened.
My point is that when things are at a distance it’s easy to say “let’s go over there” and retaliate. But in so doing the energy gets diverted into revenge and I am not sure we learn anything in the process.
I don’t think there is a person I have met who isn’t horrified by what happened in Boston. But…from what I have seen and heard, the reason I supported James Barraford’s post is that there seem to be the camp that wants to know why and the camp that thinks it’s irrelevant.
April 29, 2013 at 10:48 pm
Your expression of English is so superb Wan Nan I’d have thought you grew up next door to me. Perhaps you understand us better than we understand ourselves. I’m with Jamie on the value of your opinion (BTW, Jamie…many thanks for being co-host! I wish there were a way for us to formally do that other than in a HangOut).
April 29, 2013 at 11:02 pm
All of a sudden a little stage fright sets in, Giselle Minoli 🙂 (as in blush). Thank you, kindly, I appreciate your kind words.
As far as music: I love Jazz, but the straight ahead Jazzers wouldn’t respect me as one of theirs telling from this meager number of crossover tracks I have out there so far. But you are spot on with noticing that I do love many genres that originated from or are popular (or were) in the United States (e.g. R&B, the Blues, of course, I’m always open to a good doseage of Funk etc. I listen to all kinds of music today, though, I have opened up to a touch of classical music here and there again as of late). In fact, in order to have a better/easier working sales pitch, I use the subtitle “Contemporary American Music” with my stage name “wesbound”. Anyway – getting into the genre discussion is another can of worms…. smile.
I wouldn’t go as far as saying that I understand you better than you do yourselves. However, I did hang out with US troops and musicians being stationed here a lot in my early twens and later again. I guess, I really tried my best to absorb the mentality as much as possible – another generalization, ooops… It would be a whole different story as to why it is that I think switching perspectives/angles and questioning is a very important mental practice. I think, there was never a time, when we had to be more adamant about it, in particular with all this huge bulk of data travelling the globe literally at light speed every day (Eric Schmidt of Google had something on it and I already quoted him elsewhere). In fact, I am convinced with particular regard to the cultural aspects of the conflicts going on in the world and the problems coming from them that we have an obligation of factoring in as many aspects as possible to get a broader, more accurate view of what is going on in any particular conflict zone. I know, how hard it is not to give in to the first emotional impulse and I have to catch and remind myself of that every time again. But if we fail to do so, well… then the media basically get to shove us into whatever corner they want to have us at any given time and with almost any given subject. And sure enough, they’ve already succeeded a great deal in doing exactly that.
Got to excuse myself for some snoozing now. 🙂 Thanks for keeping me on. It means a lot to me.
April 30, 2013 at 12:28 am
Giselle Minoli The world is being indoctrinated by the media every single day (but not only in the ways of rage or anger). This does not exclude the most educated intellectuals. We think and act like characters on TV and in films, like rock and pop stars. We tell the same jokes as they do and think like them, but most people are not aware of it.
Wan Nan What were your ancestors experiencing during WWII and how did they feel? I will say what mine did after your reply.
April 30, 2013 at 12:42 am
I agree with that Mark J Horowitz. Movies, television, music…they can all be soothing balms in times of tremendous upheaval, and they can equally shut off our knowledge of what is happening in another part of the world. I look forward to this next exchange between you and Wan Nan (I neglected to mention that Mark is also a musician Werner…).
April 30, 2013 at 12:56 am
People need to have entertainment in their lives simply to enjoy it and relax. Sometimes we attribute prophecy and sainthood to our “idols). Here are two cases in point: Bob Dylan has admitted that the protest and civil rights songs he wrote were just reflections of the world at that time and he knew that by writing and recording them, they would sell many records because of that.
John Lennon – “Give Peace a Chance”, “All you Need is Love” (BTW, I stayed up and cried all of the night that he was killed) was constantly getting into bar brawls. He wasn’t a very peaceful guy in his personal life but he lectured to the international world about peace.
Back then I and my generation, memorized all of their songs and thought they could do no wrong. “Ah but I was so much older then, I’m younger than that now”.
April 30, 2013 at 1:02 am
I am also looking forward to this next exchange…
April 30, 2013 at 1:24 am
why?
April 30, 2013 at 1:36 am
Because his (inherited) reminiscences intrigue me, on more level than one…
April 30, 2013 at 1:46 am
That makes sense. Wait until you hear about about my inherited reminiscences.
April 30, 2013 at 2:04 am
Lena Levin the dual cultural artist/thinker appears…
April 30, 2013 at 2:06 am
I am afraid I am reacting at a much more emotional, “gut”, level…
April 30, 2013 at 2:06 am
Mark J Horowitz I remember Lennon’s death well. He was killed on my birthday Eve in New York, where many people blamed Yoko Ono for his death…because (so her accusers say) she tried to normalize him, convince him that he could walk among the crowd, that he was one of the people…
Dylan thought the Beatles wrote fluff. There is an interesting song called Roll On John on Dylan’s latest album, which has been written about and analyzed quite a bit. While Lennon was apparently obsessed with Dylan, Dylan was not so interested in the Beatle.
Roll on John
Doctor, doctor, tell me the time of day
Another bottle’s empty
Another penny spent
He turned around and he slowly walked away
They shot him in the back and down he went
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
From the Liverpool docks to the red light Hamburg streets
Down in the quarry with the Quarrymen.
Playing to the big crowds
Playing to the cheap seats
Another day in your life until your journey’s end
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
Sailing through the tradewinds
Bound for the south
Rags on your back just like any other slave
They tied your hands and they clamped your mouth
Wasn’t no way out of that deep dark cave
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
I heard the news today, oh boy
They hauled your ship up on the shore
Now the city’s gone dark
There is no more joy
[ From: http://www.metrolyrics.com/roll-on-john-lyrics-bob-dylan.html ]
They tore the heart right out and cut it to the core
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
Put on your bags and get ‘em packed.
Leave right now you won’t be far from wrong.
The sooner you go, the quicker you’ll be back
You’ve been cooped up on an island far too long
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
Slow down you’re moving way too fast
Come together right now over me
Your bones are weary
You’re about to breathe your last
Lord, you know how hard that it can be
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
Roll on John, roll through the rain and snow
Take the righthand road and go where the buffalo roam
They’ll trap you in an ambush before you know
Too late now to sail back home
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
Tiger, Tiger burning bright
I pray the lord my soul to keep
In the forest of the night
Cover him over and let him sleep
Shine your light, move it on, you burn so bright, roll on John
Read more: BOB DYLAN – ROLL ON JOHN LYRICS
April 30, 2013 at 2:06 am
I was referring to the actual experiences of my ancestors, not too long ago.
April 30, 2013 at 2:32 am
Giselle Minoli I’ve actually been pondering on an audio podcast format. I understand that video is what drives many now, but I still love the sound of a voice(s) where the listener can make their own assumption. I listen to old radio dramas from the 40’s and 50’s everyday. I enjoy audio podcasts. Its why I went to broadcasting school. This thread would have been audio podcast gold.
One thing i find interesting is the fixation with laying the lion share of blame on US media. There is plenty to blame them for, that I know, but as a student of world radio for forty years i can say that media around the world does the same. From the old days of Radio Moscow to Press TV today, From CNN to Radio Free Europe to the CBC, those behind the microphone have worked to shape events as those controlling the microphones want them shaped.
Boston was interesting . We Americans wanted to be worked up. We wanted a common enemy to draw us closer and to feel like we could still deliver right and fight wrong. We’ve spent a decade mainly being on the wrong side. The wars we created and supported, the casual dismissal of what is being done in our names in Gitmo and the Middle East is a disgrace. Spending a couple of days feeling empathy for the bombing victims and showing a collective will to catch the bad people doesnt change Gitmo or the Middle East.
America never had the moral high ground. Ask Iran about 1953. Ask Nicaragua on numerous occasions… The Philippines, how Hawaii was stolen, the deal that gave us Puerto Rico and Virgin Islands. If people looked at Dole and what they did with US government help people would never eat another piece of their fruit.
Americans dont want to see what was done in their names. We sit in front of televisions bewildered and angry that the world doesnt all love us. Sadly, the very reason i wrote the story last week is because I’m so pissed that my government has played a role in all the misery thrown our way and i want Americans to stop accepting and demand better.
April 30, 2013 at 2:36 am
The new Dylan album is brilliant btw.
April 30, 2013 at 2:38 am
Thanks James Barraford I’d like to check it out 🙂
April 30, 2013 at 3:23 am
I cannot respond to your thoughts properly James Barraford as my weary eyes are closing. Tomorrow then…
April 30, 2013 at 6:35 am
In the order of their appearance (more or less): Thank you, Giselle Minoli, for bringing us back to a “civil mode” of talking or else, we might have lost a great opportunity of learning from each other. And understanding the world within and around me is what makes it worthwhile to stomach the horror that often overwhelms me.
I had meant to address this yesterday: I find it interesting you should mention the time gap between the last time wars took place on American soil and how this might enable the larger part of US citizens – minus those serving or having served in the military and their families – to disconnect themselves from its effects and outcomes. And I agree and this from some first hand experience when travelling to Croatia right after the 1st Bosnian war had moved to Bosnia and other former Yugoslavian provinces. I was “visiting” my then partner/would-be fiancé, who held a batallion command. I think, it will remain one of the most bizarre experiences of my life to walk through the ancient city of Zagreb hand in hand, looking at pock marks from assault fire in walls left and right or coming across destroyed buildings, all the while wondering what its inhabitants might have experienced and trying to have a romantic week at the same time. smh. But I think you nailed it when saying: “Americans dont want to see what was done in their names. We sit in front of televisions bewildered and angry that the world doesnt all love us. Sadly, the very reason i wrote the story last week is because I’m so pissed that my government has played a role in all the misery thrown our way and i want Americans to stop accepting and demand better. ” This applies to my country just as much, especially right now while the Syrian Civil War is going on and knowing that we are selling weapons to both parties battling each other almost to extermination. It’s a crying shame.
To answer Mark J Horowitz : From the sound of your name, Mark – wink, fellow musician 🙂 – I think I get an idea of what those experiences of your family’s might have been. I take it, your ancestors come from the former Czech Republic? (thank God, we know to tell it apart from Chechnya, unlike Ms. Palin… ;)) I’m curious to learn what you’re about to share.
Ok, here goes (from what I remember learning from family members as I grew up – I was always kind of weary of stories of the war that were being shared at family gatherings. I hated those gatherings as the grown ups would collectively mourn their experiences and it wasn’t until much later that I began to understand the impact of those outcomes and their coping with them): My entire family on both sides lost their livelihood and property. They got expelt from their homes and had to leave at a moment’s notice with nothing else but the clothes on their backs and as much baggage as everyone was able to carry, including an infant. I am better familiar with the maternal side of the story and they remained in unstable conditions and whereabouts for three years before finding a new home in Bavaria. The husbands were at war and their wives never heard of them until towards the end of the war when those men, who had survived, got discharged to varying places all across the country later coined “German Federal Republic”. I recall a paternal grand aunt who lost both sons each at ages around 20. Both my grandfathers served and got injured, though not fatally or substantially. But they were both taken prisoners of war with the Russian Army and it was an unspoken rule among the men never to share anything about that time. Again, it wasn’t until a few years ago that I began to get an idea as to the full impact of their ordeal.
As far as property being lost, I guess the maternal side lost considerable wealth. They were all well to do doctors or businessmen and had lived comfortably. During those three years of being refugees of war, my maternal Grandmother earned the “family’s” income, feeding no less than five by going about men’s work, which was to lay railroad tracks. She had to leave at dawn, walked 2 hours one way needing to hide from Russian troops to avoid rape or worse harm, then do a full day’s work of up to 10 hours, then walk back, each and every day. Her sister reared my mother, my aunt and my uncle, who was an infant at that time. Their aunt also lived with them. They inhabited a tiny roof top appartment and were instructed to remain quiet and not let any noise be heard during the days or they would have been likely kicked out. In retrospect and on a side note while typing this, a lot of personal details of my own rearing begin to make sense…
After my grandfathers had returned from the war, they found a new home in different parts of Bavaria, Germany. The maternal side had lived in the same place until – now. My aunt passed away two weeks ago at age 73 and my mother is pretty disturbed about having to clear out the place she has come to know as her home. (My late aunt had lived in the family’s flat until her passing away). My paternal grandfather later built a house about an hour away from my mother’s family. This is the house I grew up in. My parents both live there to this day.
While escaping the approaching Russian army, they came through bombed out cities, passed Dresden on a freight train while it was bombed and burnt to the ground and never knew, if and where they might run into enemy lines. They were all given necklaces with a cyanide pill by their doctor uncles in case of their capture and were instructed to swallow them. (I don’t think, the kids were aware that this would have killed them; I have no idea how they were instructed, this part I never learnt in detail). I have forgotten about other possible casualties among family members. Like I said, growing up I never liked those gatherings as I didn’t understand the drama about them and I guess, I subconsciously switched to “pause” mode and simply waited it out until we’d return at night (naughty, indifferent, narcisstic me, I know….). I think, that’s as much as I remember. There’s probably a lot more to it and I guess, I’ll learn about that through my mother’s written personal memoirs, which I expect her to share after her passing.
I have to be gone from the keyboard for the larger part of the day, so forgive me for not answering any time soon today. I hope, I’ll get to keep up with the number and breadth of replies (the depth of which I very much appreciate).
Giselle Minoli , interesting to learn that you have professional broadcasting skills. I think, I can see, why you are reluctant about a hangout and would prefer it to be in audio form.
Gotta run, ladies and gents. Thanks for giving me – and thus my late ancestors – a voice in this discussion that takes very interesting turns and allows us to share our views in light of this tragic act of violence that happened in Boston. (P.S.: I had also meant to say something about expected PTSD in the surviving victims of the attacks. I am almost certain, each of them are going to suffer from that in addition to their physical wounds, which I can’t begin to wrap my mind around. I was diagnosed with [complex] PTSD a while ago and to imagine those poor people to suffer from that for the rest of their lives and then needing to stomach the horrors of those events in addition to the physical injuries… my God… ).
Oh, on my last breath: Lennon. Shocked me to the bone. Sheesh.
April 30, 2013 at 1:42 pm
Thank you so much Wan Nan it is impossible to know this sort of detail about a person when first getting to know them on G+, but it is enormously helpful in putting together the bits and pieces of their commentary (yours in this case) over a long period of time. There are many people on G+ who would prefer no one share anything personal – Unwanted Nuggets I believe a recent person frightened of the personal called them – but without them we know nothing about one another, we skim along the surface of the intellect’s limited “experience” of what enters the brain and sticks on the wax and it is left uninformed by any analysis of what has happened to the person as a result. This is the genre of literary nonfiction and it is my interest.
I await your response Mark J Horowitz…but Wan Nan these words belong to James Barraford not me: “Americans don’t want to see what was done in their names. We sit in front of televisions bewildered and angry that the world doesnt all love us. Sadly, the very reason i wrote the story last week is because I’m so pissed that my government has played a role in all the misery thrown our way and i want Americans to stop accepting and demand better.”
April 30, 2013 at 2:19 pm
Giselle Minoli Agreed. I’ve had people remark that I share a lot of myself here. I probably do much more than the casual user, but that’s because I can’t see the point of being here otherwise. Only sharing the banal of what I ate or watched on TV ( which I do share) would bore me to tears, let alone others.
That doesn’t mean I’ve scratched the surface of my existence. It’s all in bits and pieces, like the story I wrote Saturday on my father ruining Little League for me. The story for another day is how my father saved my life with CPR after my heart stopped following a fall.
I held back on my full opinion within the Bomber story because I felt if I went all in that I’d lose dialogue with people. I felt if I started with some personal thought then we could get to place that we’ve achieved within this thread. My wife was surprised I took that tact as she knows I’m a bull in a china shop. 🙂
April 30, 2013 at 2:28 pm
Bulls in China Shops mellow with age and the become more tender James Barraford. I wonder if the people who have remarked that you “share” a lot of yourself here are men or women? It is far less common for men, unless they are fiction, nonfiction or poetical writers, and, sadly, becoming less common for women at least on public forums because of the nasty fanged troll varietal that lurks in the woods smacking its lips at the possibility of encountering just such a revealing soul.
No matter, I agree that there is no point in being here otherwise. I really don’t care how people use the medium. It is not endangered by cat gifs that’s for sure. It is endangered by trolls who can show up and with one comment derail a thread. It is a kind of “bomb” attack in and of itself.
April 30, 2013 at 2:45 pm
Giselle Minoli Normally men make the share comment in a less than kind manner. Women typically say they want more men to be genuinely open.
Bulls mellow with age related experience and physical limitations. I know of both. 🙂
I’m thinking on a Boston follow up, but the story keeps changing, so we’ll see.
April 30, 2013 at 2:50 pm
Yes, the story does keep changing and isn’t that interesting James Barraford? That in and of itself shows the value of our collective posts – mine the night of the “capture,” your Cultural Purveyor article and my reposting of that. All in all, how little we know is stunning. I look forward to whenever and however your continued thoughts on the subject congeal into a follow up…
April 30, 2013 at 2:55 pm
Giselle Minoli An editor given this thread could piece together a fascinating article for mainstream publication.
April 30, 2013 at 2:56 pm
I’ve never believed this attack was two brothers alone. I still don’t. What levels of involvement from others (inside and outside the family) is TBD.
April 30, 2013 at 3:06 pm
James Barraford more and more things are coming out…… like Female DNA found on one of the bombs…..
and dear Mama is claiming her sons are innocent….. ( shakes my head.)
April 30, 2013 at 3:29 pm
The parents canceling coming was interesting. So much for burying son.
April 30, 2013 at 4:00 pm
Matthew Graybosch considering some statements made I would be looking at them. If my kids were part of a terrorist attack I would probably not come either I suppose.
April 30, 2013 at 4:21 pm
The female DNA marks a significant component. Wife? Other? What all seemed certain now seems murky other than the brothers being there. Everything else is up for discussion.
April 30, 2013 at 7:07 pm
I must have missed the parents cancelling their itinerary to the U.S. So they won’t be available for interrogation? Yes, that is interesting…
May 1, 2013 at 12:17 pm
Apologies for my absence yesterday but I had a long meeting and work to do afterward. I spent some time trying to find a documentary that I remember featured on 60 Minutes last year that was about efforts by descendants of some Germans to reconcile with descendants of some Jewish families. I say “some” because my memory is that it is an ongoing project and it was quite moving. It addressed many complex ideas – the pain of historical events carried into the future, the circumstances under which reconciliation can take place.
I’m frustrated that I can’t find the film clip and will keep looking, but I think it is the Action Reconciliation Service for Peace, through which the book Reconciling Lives was officially launched in Berlin. Both of these links are below: http://www.actionreconciliation.org/ and http://www.actionreconciliation.org/about-us/news/book-launch-reconciling-lives.html.
There is a similar effort going on with certain museums in Israel to connect Jewish youth and Arab youth through art. There are many links about this but here is one: http://israel21c.org/social-action-2/sculptures-open-a-dialogue-for-jewish-and-palestinian-kids/.
I’m thinking about all of this because reconciliation/understanding is so difficult attain. But is there any other way…ultimately? Getting back to Boston, my worry was that we would be off and running on yet another story woven around an entire people and what that means. It is layer upon layer of anger and rage, and then what?
P.S. For whatever reason whenever I’m in a coffeeshop alone I usually end up talking to someone…who is reading a book. In January I sat next to an African American man, who it turned out was a History Professor who was reading a book on the cultural legacy of the trauma of slavery. I asked him about the book and he was telling me how history can become a “script” so internalized that people can live their lives by a script written in the past – that the facts may be indisputable, but that living and moving forward requires a different effort. I can’t remember the name of that book either and am trying to find it. Very frustrating…
May 1, 2013 at 7:31 pm
Giselle Minoli Apology accepted 🙂 if you also forgive my absence.
May 1, 2013 at 8:09 pm
Ma certo Mark J Horowitz. You have had a busy schedule I note…
May 1, 2013 at 8:16 pm
Yes Giselle Minoli Now I will have to use Google Chrome Translation feature to learn the meaning of “Ma Certo” 🙂
May 1, 2013 at 8:19 pm
But of course, But certainly, You bet, Absolutely, Yessirreeeeee! Mark J Horowitz
May 6, 2013 at 5:40 pm
The book your coffee table neighbour was reading might have been this: http://goo.gl/kf6Eu
I also looked up the other links you mentioned, Giselle Minoli . From a personal vantage point I’d be more interested in seeing how a reconciliation between the WWII expellees (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heimatvertriebene) and their expellers came about. But to my knowledge, there never was such a project.
I find this theory of cultural trauma to be interesting, and time and circumstances permitting, I might get a hold of that above linked book. I myself have been long thinking along the lines of such a phenomenon. There’s a lot more to my personal story than the obvious and I tried to get that taken care of in the appropriate therapeutic environment (to no avail). When going beyond tunnel vision of being personally affected, I think to be able to identify culturally induced presuppositions that may have lead up to what I encountered growing up. But that would get us into a different realm and without further reading on my part and for reasons of not belonging here, there’s no point in digressing or expanding the subject of this thread.
However, in regards to culturally or politically motivated violence, I highly recommend looking into Alice Miller, in particular “The Drama of the Gifted Child” (I may have mentioned her before…) and maybe this article: http://www.alice-miller.com/articles_en.php?lang=en&nid=116&grp=11
She has derived a theoretic framework from her work that looks at reasons and ways to prevent violence to perpetuate from one generation to the next. In addition to this, there are very new findings from research on (C-) PTSD and epigenetics, thereby confirming a link between trauma in prior generations and those experiences leaving a DNA footprint behind. In other words and in a nutshell, enduring (culturally, politically motivated) violence in one generation possibly affects succeeding generations as well, even when the immediate source of violence is removed, e.g. when wars no longer go on in the succeeding generation’s environment. I guess, there is indeed scientific evidence for what I said above, i.e. how growing up in a certain climate leaves its mark in much more profound ways than we might have assumed.
Mark J Horowitz – I am still looking forward to your account of experiences re: your ancestors, when time and convenience allow for it.
May 6, 2013 at 10:44 pm
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but somehow I just came across this through a trusted Facebook contact. The link points towards an article in German of one of the major mainstream media in my country. The article is an interview of historian Andreas Kramer, son of one of the main characters behind the 1980 Octoberfest bombing in my country, which killed 13 and injured more than 200 persons (bombs much like the Boston bombs filled with TNT and filled with shrapnel were used and placed in garbage cans, many people suffered similar injuries as the Boston victims, with several persons needing to have both legs amputated). Kramer’s father, who then was a member of our BND, which is a secret service much like the CIA, confirmed under oath that his father planned the bombing, built the bombs with other BND members and hired the bomber. Much like in the Boston bombings, the purported bomber was a young student (of geology in this case), whom they pinned it on.
The interviewee further confirms – and has confirmed the same thing under oath in an investigative trial – that there is a hidden paramilitary network called Gladio, which was installed by the CIA after WW II and recruits other secret services members in Western countries, including our BND (Bundesnachrichtendienst). Their mission to this day is to seed fear and insecurity among the population in Western countries through terrorist attacks, which then manifests an atmosphere of calling for stricter security regulations, which come at the expense of needing to sacrifice more and more civil liberties. The paramilitary network seems to be in operation to this very day, although maybe no longer under the above name. They have such hidden networks in my country and probably all of the Western countries according to research that the interviewee has conducted and presented, where the bulk of information comes from direct talks with his father. The interviewer closes by asking, whether the interviewee fears for his life after disclosing all this information. The interviewee replies saying that he can’t rule out that someone put a contract out on his behalf and that after the trials and investigations surrounding the Octoberfest bombing there were a number of deaths and killings of unidentified nature. He continues to say that he feels obligated to bring the truth out nonetheless. He refers to his father as a mass murderer and said that he was 17 when he learnt of all this. Asked, whether he had considered reporting him then or going public, the interviewee said, yes, he had deliberated that, but dismissed the notion on account of suspecting noone would have believed him anyway.
http://goo.gl/BiIZV
I have done my best to put the main points of this interview into a nutshell sparing myself the need to translate the entire article/interview. I think, we can agree that we can bury any talk of conspiracy theories. And I get the feeling, James Barraford , that your withholding to go in all the way revolves around ideas of this nature.
Although I largely don’t trust the mainstream media any more, I don’t think anyone would be as crazy as putting their life on the line in order to drum up allegations of conspiracies, much less if there was no or little evidence for them. However, according to this shocking testimonial what we’ve seen in Boston, in Munich and elsewhere is apparently part of standard secret service operation and has been for the past decades… The members of secret services being recruited for such inside jobs a priori use their rank and status as perfect camouflage to rid themselves of even becoming as much as suspects. Currently, we seem to see the very same thing going on with the trial being held in Munich, against Beate Zschäpe, who is the surviving supporting member of the right wing extremist cell “NSU”, who have carried out 10 murders against Turkish and Greek immigrants in my country.
As far as Boston, I had assumed something along those lines from the beginning, but much like James was reluctant to call it. After this article, however, which meticulously confirms every gut feeling I’ve been having, I don’t see the necessity to withhold any personal assessment any longer. In other words: The FBI (or the CIA or both) seem to have planned and staged the Boston bombings according to a minutely detailed plan. The utter brutality of this, I have no words for. On the other hand – why should we assume different knowing that the military sends their country’s soldiers to other countries knowing full well that a good deal of their people are going to die or get severely injured? And if they do that with recruited personnel, why should they spare anyone?
It’s simply mind boggling, I can’t let this fully settle…. or I go crazy. More on the Octoberfest bombing at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oktoberfest_terror_attack
P.S. The interview is very recent and follows Mr. Kramer’s testimonial under oath before a Luxembourg jury. All evidence bearing DNA marks and other evidence beyond any doubt was destroyed in 1997. A reopening of the trial was attempted several times, the most recent one in 2005, but none of those calls to reinvestigate was heeded. Since all evidence is now gone, there is not too big a point in trying to go for another investigation again.
May 7, 2013 at 10:54 am
Wan Nan thanks for digging around yourself, but that is not the book. The man I was speaking with was reading a new book and it didn’t have a title that would easily indicate its subject matter. When I am next in a well-stocked Barnes & Noble I will look at real life book covers.
On another thread a woman in Europe told me she couldn’t find the same links that I was finding here in the States and I wonder if that is the reason you can’t find the links to the reach out programs I mentioned. But if you Google The Israel Museum they should be there because you can find them here.
As for your “bad news,” I haven’t had time to read it yet…I have a writing deadline…but will get to it as soon as I am able. Let me say however that I am always leery of reports like this, not because I don’t believe there could be truth to them but because we will never have the information to “prove” it and this sort of report always makes me feel like I am about to go ’round and ’round on an endless reading circle loop…
May 7, 2013 at 11:36 am
Oh, ok, thanks for clarifying, Giselle Minoli . As for the inaccessible links, they mostly relate to YouTube videos which have music in them, as our collecting society for musicians, GEMA, and YouTube have this dispute over compensation of artists. As a result, YouTube block videos containing music with the message, GEMA hadn’t released usesage rights to them. As far as the reconciliation program you mention, I was able to access it, but didn’t get into any further. I don’t feel any responsibility for that period of history, as it wouldn’t be until another 20 years into the future until I’d be born. In addition to that, while I believe in learning from the past, I don’t put a whole lot of stock into living in the past. Of course, it may and will be different for those, who have either lived in that generation or are direct descendants of it.
In terms of the report I mention, I agree on your saying that we’ll never have complete truth and knowledge about it. I had already mentioned this in a different comment reminding myself and us that it’s in the nature of covert operations that they aren’t supposed to be disclosed to anyone. I’d interpret the destruction of irrefutable evidence as an act of keeping a veil over these events, much like we saw during and after 9/11. But like you said, it’s a moot point to keep speculating over details we will likely never have complete clarity over given the nature of secrecy and for covert operations to be only “successful”, if the wider public never gains a full understanding of them, let alone detailed knowledge of facts as an investigation would likely turn up. However, I found this case to be remarkable, which is why I brought to the attention of participants in this thread, as I find Mr. Kramer’s disregard for his personal safety quite stunning and telling and as this story is being revealed at an interesting point in time, namely when the trial against this right wing extremist group in our country – the NSU terror cell – began just yesterday, which has been seeing major controversy prior to its beginning and which is expected – or hoped, rather – to shed some light as to the connection with this terror cell or even involvement of our secret and intelligence service in planning and carrying out of those operations. In other words, Mr. Kramer and the journalist interviewing him sort of dropped a (rhetorical, verbal) bomb themselves right around the start of one of the purportedly major trials in post WWII German history – not as significant as the Nuremberg trials, but being a close “runner up” to the first. Anyway, I just put it out there to consider and keep in mind when analyzing and discussing the Boston attacks. And in fact, the similarities between the Octoberfest bombing and the Boston attack couldn’t be any more striking – I’d say.
Good luck with your writing deadline!
May 7, 2013 at 11:58 am
Wan Nan putting aside the “bad news” issue for the moment, may I ask, even though I know you were born 20 years later and you don’t therefore feel any responsibility for the period of history in the Germany before you were born, whether on a day-to-day basis you feel, encounter or experience in any way, emotionally, intellectually, philosophically, spiritually (or in some other way that I may not be mentioning) some ongoing “awareness” of it? For instance, in the States even though I was not around during the Civil War, it is still absolutely an ongoing conversation (which is the reason I mentioned the book about slavery and cultural trauma I cannot find) and I would say that there is acute awareness of it not just geographically but culturally (and certainly there are those who say that the Civil War is still being fought in some States) and so even though the end of slavery happened a long time ago (as an event) the awareness of what happened is still very much present tense.
So I’m wondering about that in Germany. I mean since two of the links I mentioned were outreach programs that began in Germany there is obviously a cultural awareness there too and I would like to assume it’s not just a healing awareness (the film), but an acknowledgement/prevention awareness as well.
I was thinking about this last week when I saw the American movie 42 on the great African American baseball player Jackie Robinson. On the one hand it is easy for me or anyone else to say that that was a long time ago, but the other greater question is what was going on in our culture to begin with that allowed this remarkable man to be treated that way in the first place and where might that mentality still exist?
I love my country but I could never claim that there is no racism in America the way Ronald Reagan did. I suppose it’s a question I could ask about a lot of things here and elsewhere, and I’m just wondering if you personally feel that sense of questioning in your country.
May 7, 2013 at 12:30 pm
Good point, Giselle Minoli . Yes, I’d say there is an awareness. However, the more I distance myself from views and notions that were instilled in me growing up and while receiving an education, I’m afraid this particular subject has become a very loaded one to the point where awareness has turned into something else. To give you an example: As a German citizen and particularly as a politician you are never to criticize Israel and their politics, no matter what. If you happen to be in disagreement over the settlements in the West Bank or the overall agenda of the Israeli government, you cannot say so openly without being perceived as offensive and extending anisemitic slurs. It’s a reflex. No distinction is being made between the people and the government’s politics. You simply cannot say anything critical or negative about some of the politics going on the Middle East. Period. I don’t find this climate to be helpful, much less for people of my generation who didn’t directly contribute to this historic catastrophe known as the Holocaust in any way, shape or form.
And if I may speak candidly: There is little discussion about our country’s politics on weapons’ deals. In fact, a large part of our export economy relies on exporting weapons, and in many cases to both parties being in military conflict over. I’d have to look for the exact sources, but it’s been reported over and over. I think, hypocrisy is the word that comes to mind here. In short: It’s hard to reflect on this without being put into one or the other box. I’m usually simply not going anywhere near the subject as it’s a hot button that doesn’t seem to provide room for real discussion.
The fact, that I’m speaking about some things here in your thread followed my feeling that we’re rapidly declining in terms of freedoms we take for granted and like I said after the Boston bombings and the man hunt, over there as well as here I see a major drive for exploiting such “events” politically and to the disadvantage of the rank and file citizen. I’m not even sure, to what extent we may have already passed a point of no return in regards to these freedoms, democracy and the political voliition of the majority. I get the feeling, we have and the public aren’t realizing it or actively look the other way for reasons of cognitive dissonance and protection their emotional sanity (keyword being: normalcy bias)…
Did that answer it?
May 7, 2013 at 12:49 pm
I think so. What I interpret your words to mean is that you do not feel free to express yourself without assumptions being made about who you are, what you really believe and what you feel and that you therefore think there is no “real” conversation about certain subjects so you don’t bother to go there. I know many people in the States who feel that way about one issue or another, so I’m familiar with the sentiment you express. It’s unfortunate because conversation is the tool we are given to learn from the past and to change the future. I don’t know another way.
For what it’s worth to you, I appreciate your willingness to express your feelings here. I know it’s not easy. It’s easy to disagree online when there are no eyes to look into, no face to take in, no vocal inflections to interpret. Whenever I post something even slightly political (or religious) I’m always hesitant because the territory is so ripe for misunderstanding and anger. Here in the States people always say “Never talk about politics or religion at the dinner table with company.” In my house absolutely every conversation is allowable, disagreement, difference of opinion, whatever it is. I don’t know how we are to ever learn anything if we don’t try to understand other people’s experiences.
I’m ever grateful for my years as an actor/director because I learned early on that the only way to play any character/direct any play is that you must be interested in them. You must understand them. Where they came from, why they believe what they believe, why they behave the way they behave, why they say what they say. Like it or not, uncomfortable or not, the only tool we have for changing anything is conversation. So I thank you for being willing Wan Nan. Not everyone is.
BTW…there was another study about music and neuroscience. Happily the notion that music is indeed therapy is taking root more and more. Oliver Sacks knew it decades ago. He was considered a nutty scientist back then. But the wheels of change turn very slowly indeed…
May 7, 2013 at 1:03 pm
Thank you for understanding and being the wonderful empath that you are, Giselle Minoli . I try to overcome my reluctance or sometimes downright fears one by one and I agree on what you’re saying in regards to communicating and understanding. I call it switching perspective or switching angle of view and I find it to be a required technique in order to have a civil, educating, enriching and often times very exhilirating conversation. But it doesn’t work this way with everyone, particularly, if people come with preconceived notions they are hell bent on holding on to for dear life. “Brickheads”, in other words. At the risk of sounding degrading, it is this type of mentality that I can only confront so often and when feeling very strong and stable myself. It feels like going into the ring without gloves or dental protection and it isn’t pretty, let alone productive. Hence, I all the more enjoy places like this, like your stream and the people populating it.
As far as music: I have heard of such research and results a few years ago through a German Jazz musician and music professor living and teaching in Bloomington, Indiana. In terms of keeping my own demons and scares in check, I’ve started to force myself to at least a little bit of time of playing the guitar or piano every day again and allowing myself to be exposed to music on a more frequent basis again. For some time, this didn’t seem to make sense, as fear had completely engulfed me to an extent, where I was advised to seek medical, inpatient help. As this won’t happen, I am finding music and the gift bestowed to be a wonderful resource of self help and healing. It will take time, and it feels different than in my twens, but it’s there, so why not use it. 🙂 Thanks for your inspiring thoughts and replies!
May 8, 2013 at 10:51 pm
Last, I find this to interesting. I heard of the phenomenon of cognitive dissonance at university for the first time. It applies to all areas of life, not just trauma. 9/11: Explosive Evidence – Psychologists Speak Out
January 30, 2014 at 11:29 pm
And so, nine months after I made this post, we arrive at the announcement today that the Death Penalty will be sought in the case against Dzhokhar A. Tsarnaev, the Boston Marathon Bomber. Attorney General Eric H. Holder, Jr. said, _*The nature of the conduct at issue and the resultant harm compel this decision.”
The strange thing about that statement is that it deflects the responsibility for the decision to “the nature of the conduct at issue,” as though the decision were outside of the consciousness or psychology or intellect or brain of the Attorney General. How odd. The link to the article is here:
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/01/31/us/boston-marathon-bombing-case.html?hp
January 30, 2014 at 11:42 pm
As a native Bostonian, I am outraged. This is not who we are. This is savagery being done in our name but against our will.
January 30, 2014 at 11:46 pm
Craig Lennox I’m so interested to read that reaction from you. Are we alone in this view? I think you phrased it brilliantly: “…savagery being done in our name but against our will.” That reminds me of how I felt after 9/11 as a New Yorker. Those of us who lived in the City were not screaming from retribution and invading Afghanistan. We were generally horrified.
What is the reaction in Boston among those you know…may I ask?
January 31, 2014 at 12:01 am
Giselle Minoli Well first I can tell you that we were all extremely angry that after the incredible work our police did to catch Tsarnev alive, that the FBI just swooped down and took him away from us. I think you won’t find a single person here who doesn’t believe that this should be a matter handled by us, according to our laws. And I think there are a solid majority, at least of whom I talk to, who flatly reject the death penalty on principle, and feel extreme shame before the world that the US still practices it.
January 31, 2014 at 12:07 am
I am with you in this Craig Lennox. I simply fail to see what it will accomplish. None of those unfortunate people who died will be brought back. The lives of none of the people who survived and will spend years struggling with their deformities and scars will not, in my view, be healed by this. Putting this misguided kid to death is not going to solve a single thing…except feeding the frenzy for retribution that fuels the existence of the Death Penalty to begin with…
January 31, 2014 at 12:24 am
A fairly recent Gallop poll says that 63% still support the death penalty. So, across the US, most support the death penalty. http://www.gallup.com/poll/159770/death-penalty-support-stable.aspx
January 31, 2014 at 12:33 am
…and that certainly is a good thing Michael Rutherford
January 31, 2014 at 12:43 am
Michael Rutherford there was a time when people supported segregation. That didn’t make it right. There was a time when people supported slavery. That didn’t make that right, either. There was a time when people supported binding women’s feet. That, too, changed. Support does not “equal” right…
January 31, 2014 at 12:49 am
I wasn’t saying that the survey results mean that it is right Giselle Minoli. I just get the impression that there are those that believe a minority support death penalty and that is not the case.
January 31, 2014 at 1:00 am
I don’t trust polls Michael Rutherford. I’ve never been polled for anything in my life. It seems only extremists get polled. 😉
January 31, 2014 at 1:15 am
Ok Giselle Minoli. But one thing that always bothers me when these death penalty arguments come up is that they generally occur around a specific case. Such as this one. And, they aren’t often framed in terms of the death penalty itself. The result is that those arguing that the someone in particular shouldn’t be subject to the death penalty come off as being soft on crime.
January 31, 2014 at 1:29 am
I’ve never understood how a quick and painless death is supposed to be hard on crime, and a lifetime in prison isn’t.
January 31, 2014 at 1:45 am
I’ve read the article. This is insanity. To this day, I am not buying the official version. Something tells me, everything in this case stinks. And so does the announced course of action. Gah… I can’t believe this. They’re going to stop the heartbeat of an at least misguided, possibly manipulated young man to cater to the lowest of human instincts: Retribution. We’re not evolving… But it soothes me to read so many considerate as well as questioning comments here on your wall, Giselle Minoli .
January 31, 2014 at 1:55 am
No Wan Nan. They are going to have a trial and seek the death penalty.
January 31, 2014 at 2:37 am
Readers Digest version. The death penalty is state sanctioned murder. Shame on the American people for continuing to support a barbaric institution shared with ugly totalitarian regimes such as North Korea and Saudi Arabia.
January 31, 2014 at 2:53 am
James Barraford it let’s people off the immediate hook of having to do something…but catches the entire country on the bigger hook of What have we done? We are just like the accused… When will we ever learn?
January 31, 2014 at 3:57 am
Misguided?? Please give me a break!!
January 31, 2014 at 4:01 am
Giselle Minoli We aren’t learning and we aren’t evolving…. We are devolving into a cesspool of hatred and intolerance and vengeance. It turns my stomach to listen to the bloodlust of death penalty supporters.
January 31, 2014 at 4:58 am
Kindly illuminate the rest of us Mark J Horowitz with what exactly, and I do mean exactly the death penalty accomplishes. I want facts and figures. I want proof that it is justice. I want proof that every single person directly affected feels better, is happier, is healed. I want proof that there is less violence, less crime, that we are safer, that such a practice is better for us culturally, socially, politically, economically. I want proof that our relationships with ourselves and other are fixed because of this practice. Prove it to me. I really don’t care what anyone calls this young man. That is not the issue. The issue is the practice of capital punishment and the seriously misguided belief that it does any good at all. The practice is morally, ethically, spiritually wrong on every conceivable level. You are merely pretending that it isn’t because you need to believe something about its effectiveness that has never been and will never be true. That is not justice. That is blindness.
January 31, 2014 at 5:14 am
“Morally, ethically and spiritually wrong” Giselle Minoli? Whose morality, ethics and spirituality? How do you define these? – on a cultural basis, higher educational basis, political basis? Who is to judge if these definitions apply to those on one or the other side of the political spectrum or they apply universally. Are my views right because all of the folks I socialize with agree with me? They must be because I really like my friends. I wouldn’t be caught dead in a cafe with anyone who voted for Romney. The world is built on just the right balance of kindness and justice. Hey Giselle Minoli , you know that I admire you, and that I’m in enemy territory on this post, but hey – I speak my mind. Good night.
January 31, 2014 at 5:25 am
I asked for proof, which you could not give me in any form Mark J Horowitz. Your answer is the reason that I wrote that capital punishment is morally, ethically and spiritually wrong. There is no “proof” that it is the right thing to do. It is therefore misguided. Yes, in my view. But in the view of a lot of other people too, including family members of victims, who are more and more lobbying not to further aggravate a committed crime by committing yet another one. If you are curious, you can read about this in the The Atlantic, courtesy of Anne-Marie Clark who shared it this evening on my other post about the Ohio execution last week. For what it is worth to you, the majority of people on these posts are against capital punishment. There must be a reason for that…
January 31, 2014 at 5:52 am
The reason that the majority on these posts are against capital punishment is because they are birds of a feather and they flock together. They don’t strike me as being very religious but they advocate turning the other cheek. When someone commits a crime and is found guilty, they should be punished. That is justice and justice is very, very good.
January 31, 2014 at 5:58 am
Still friends? I hope so.
January 31, 2014 at 6:01 am
In your view it is justice, Mark J Horowitz. I don’t share that view. It is, to me, barbarity. I am glad that you sleep well at night with that view. I could not. As for turning the other cheek, it’s difficult to look the other direction when so many have their teeth set on revenge or punishment or whatever you call it. For what it’s worth use of the word “punishment” here is wholly inaccurate. The word implies a correction or discipline…not murder. You cannot “punish” someone you kill. It isn’t possible, so, as “punishment” it’s fairly useless.
January 31, 2014 at 6:12 am
You know Giselle Minoli , I don’t stay up this late on a weeknight just for anyone. Didn’t John Lennon sing that to Paul in “How Do you Sleep at Night”? I don’t dislike you because you disagree with me. Most of the time I sleep at night, but when I don’t it’s not this issue that keeps me up. Do you believe in punishing people for crimes other than murder, or would you also refer to them as misguided? “Grew up poor, single welfare mother, flunked out of school, bad friends – so he kidnapped, raped and tortured someone”. – just misguided – don’t lock him up – send him to a therapist, right?
January 31, 2014 at 6:16 am
Wow, Mark J Horowitz the cynicism in you runs pretty deep tonight. Kindly go back and re-read my use of misguided and I’ll think you’ll find much more depth of meaning than you would like to find in your literal interpretation of my use of that word. Yes, I rather seriously disagree with you.
And I would say that I think you are misguided as to what, exactly, you think this kind of “punishment” will accomplish, which I keep asking to you show me, but which you won’t do. As for going from my anti-capital punishment belief to thinking that there is no kind of punishment for any kind of misdemeanor, crime, felony or misdeed…are you kidding? You must be. It’s late.
January 31, 2014 at 6:54 am
I remember feeling a palpable loss when the federal government (yes, that’s still “we the people”) executed convicted Oklahoma City bomber Timothy McVeigh.
What loss? I am not entirely sure, but I felt that important information about motivation and co-conspiracy were extinguished forever.
It is important to know …. Jack Ruby effectively did the same thing. The mystery remains ….
January 31, 2014 at 11:26 am
Giselle Minoli Mark J Horowitz I fail to see how extinguishing a life is punishment. If the goal is punishment, and that’s what it should be, then throwing the murderer into a 6 x 6 with no amenities, no TV, no internet, just three squares a day with some yard time, and a couple of books, is punishment.
We are all going to die. See, that’s what is always lost on those in favor of the death penalty. That person is going to die anyway, we just speed the process.
Therefore, what’s the punishment…. not staring at gray walls for a few decades?
Given the choice between spending decades in a 6 x 6 living a shitty existence ruing the actions that lead me here or taking the deep sleep, give me the sleep. We are actually doing them a favor by executing them.
I don’t believe in granting favors to murderers. Let them sit and contemplate on what they have done.
Jack C Crawford Interesting point you bring up.
January 31, 2014 at 12:15 pm
Let’s do a thought experiment, shall we? Two weeks ago, I somehow came across and read this article. https://medium.com/life-changes/896225bd52ca
I would like to encourage everyone having chimed in on this thread to read it. It is a very gripping, poignant and realistic sounding description of a person losing a dear one in a car crash and dealing with the aftermath of having lost that person. (Other than in the context of this discussion it’s also an excellent warning to people, who think it’s o.k. to text and drive… To me, the gap between this motivation and setting out to deliberately kill is not all that wide – both know the (potential) consequences and are o.k. with them….)
If you’re talking punishment then I suggest whoever takes another person’s life be confronted with something like that above article details. In other words, I agree with those above who say that if you call for punishment, something along the lines of somehow “rubbing it in” with the person who committed a violent crime or took another person’s life is more along the lines of punishing than the “deep sleep” as you call it. And maybe, it even prompts some growth in that person who thought it o.k. to hurt or kill other people. Then something positive would have been achieved.
As far as “justice”: I’m not exactly happy with that idea, either. Exactly whose justice? Apparently, the perpetrator of a violent crime felt justified to commit said crime in the first place, too. So, state-sanctioned justice is better, because more people are behind it (if that is so in the first place)? That’s stone age thinking to me.
Besides… 9/11 was a wake-up call for me. Governments, authorities, secret services and even the media – can’t be trusted. We’re being manipulated day in, day out and in the name of power so. But I’m digressing…
January 31, 2014 at 12:28 pm
Wan Nan Thank you for sharing the story I wrote in Medium about distracted drivers. Happy ending is that I didn’t die.
I agree with your post.
January 31, 2014 at 12:49 pm
Jack C Crawford thank you for pointing out the undeniable and sobering reality that execution ends a life but does nothing to bring closure to the great mystery of “why.” Some people may not care how and why such people become such misguided, dangerous and vengeful people…but I do. At this moment I think back on our invasion of Iran Hussein and his two sons are dead. So is Osama bin Laden. But we are no loser to ending the war on terrorism than we ever were and we all wait in fear over whist could happen in Sochi. There are people operating against harmony and peace everywhere. What? We’re going to kill them all?
January 31, 2014 at 12:52 pm
Wan Nan I had read James Barraford’s story earlier in the week and, Yes, it raises exactly the question of who is “punished” when someone dies. This idea James Barraford of requiring someone to live with what they have done…Yes, Yes and Yes… but for us all to reflect on the causes of violence, hatred, vengence, war, strife and the problems we are causing.
January 31, 2014 at 1:04 pm
Giselle Minoli My mom was a corrections officer in a mens prison. The tales she would tell an impressionable and semi-wild teenager. I now work in the criminal system. Prison is not the Club Fed as so many think.
I don’t believe anyone here would want to spend even a weekend in gen pop. Now think in terms of decades, maybe many decades.
That is infinitely more punishment that ending the murderer’s life.
DP advocates use deterent…. bullshit. If that were the case everyone that serves time would never commit crimes again to land back in jail. I see firsthand that’s not the case.
DP advocates use punishment…. see above for that.
What it boils down to is vengence. That’s all the DP is…. vengence. Let’s be clear and let’s be honest. It’s simple vengence and nothing more. The rest is dishonest bullshit cloaking an inability to see the situation for what it really is.
And yes, I have first hand experience on the subject.
My wife’s best friend was murdered three weeks before our wedding. Shot multiple times while working in a fast food establishment at closing time during a botched robbery.
It was devastating. But throughout the legal process, we never wanted the four teens to die. We wanted a life without them on the streets to inflict that pain again. And that’s what happened to the ones old enough to be tried in criminal courts, including the actual shooter.
January 31, 2014 at 1:08 pm
OMG, of course – it’s James’ story! Sheesh, yeah, sorry for having overlooked his name below the title… Thank God – or Pete or whom- or whatever – that you lived!
And a firm consent on my part as well as far as punishment is concerned.
“People operating against peace and harmony everywhere” – unfortunately so. And coincidentally most of them seem to be linked to or seated in positions of (state-authorized) power. I have my own version of what exactly went down with the Boston Marathon bombing. But again… that’s for a different discussion (if any discussion in that regard made any sense in the first place…).
January 31, 2014 at 1:36 pm
James Barraford ah…so very sorry for your and your wife’s wretched experience before your wedding…and, obviously, in light of your own story, for that woman’s family and all those who suffered because of her death.
But what strikes me, and I can’t get away from this, is why some of us so clearly believe (Instinctually? Naturally? Spiritually? Reasonably? Intellectually? Philosophically?) that the DP, as you put it, is not a solution, and why we clearly also see a difference between what so many people claim to be “justice” and what it really is, which is “vengeance.” Those two words have nothing to do with one another and all sorts of images float to mind when I think about vengeance. I free associate to anger, to rage, to bullying, to retribution, to all those old images of the mafia, to the stupidity of An Eye for an Eye, a Tooth for a Tooth.
The problem with seeking vengeance or some kind of pay back for crimes is that it cannot be accomplished in a state of peace or grace or harmony. It is always accomplished accompanied by rage and anger and hatred and self-satisfaction and dissatisfaction and the need to inflict pain, the need to watch someone suffer who has caused someone else to suffer. This, to me, is sick. It is, basically, a self-perpetuating cycle of hatred. I’m sorry but I don’t know anyone who believes in the death penalty who is at heart a peaceful and peace-making person. Because in order to believe in the DP…it needs to be accompanied by other beliefs that support it and this is why I think the issue is not a legal one, but a spiritual one.
We hear the message that you are conveying, Jamie, about what it is really like on the inside from many, many people. Why it isn’t listened to is also part of the problem. In order to go down the road of really investigating a way out of this mess, cynicism, sarcasm, rage, hatred and blood thirst need to be left behind altogether.
January 31, 2014 at 1:46 pm
Good Morning Giselle Minoli . I wish you a happy and productive day *~)) …Markiee
January 31, 2014 at 1:58 pm
Giselle Minoli Ex-mayor David Dinkins once erred in the use of “An Eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth”, by taking it literally. That precept in the Torah is meant strictly in a financial sense meaning that if my ox gores your cow and damages or kills it, the court determines the monetary value of the cow, and I have to pay that amount to you. It has never meant knocking out someone’s eye or tooth.
January 31, 2014 at 2:12 pm
Giselle Minoli Interesting that you assumed my wife’s best friend was a woman.
Dave would have disagreed with that assessment.
😛
January 31, 2014 at 2:13 pm
Giselle Minoli You are too intelligent by three, my friend.
January 31, 2014 at 2:28 pm
Gosh, James Barraford I should have assumed that I am not the only woman who has a man as a best friend! I do feel alone in that oft times. I have many, many male friends (my husband is completely understanding and in fact thinks it’s a good thing). But, culturally, there is always the assumption of some sort of sexual relationship. Sigh. Another topic for another day – why friendship between men and women is fraught with assumptions. Apologies to your wife!
January 31, 2014 at 2:42 pm
Giselle Minoli Never a need to apologize. I thought it was funny. Other than my wife, my best friend of over 30 years is female.
This is a very heavy thread, nothing wrong with some levity.
January 31, 2014 at 2:53 pm
People often assume that my opposition to the death penalty comes of misplaced compassion for the criminal. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
I remember the day Timothy McVeigh was executed. As heinous an act as that bombing was, I felt no joy nor satisfaction from his death. What I felt was that we had, in effect, frozen the man’s rage and defiance in time. We ensured that it would live on forever, and eclipse the man.
If there ever were a man who, arguably, deserved the death penalty, it is Charles Manson. It was only a quirk of events that commuted his sentence to life imprisonment. But by keeping him alive, we have given him every opportunity for change, and remorse, to grow into a better person. And in his refusal to do that, we have punished him far worse than if we had simply executed him. He lives on as a parody of himself, a circus freak to be gawked at and ridiculed. He will die withered and incontinent and nothing of his poison will remain.
January 31, 2014 at 8:42 pm
This is an interesting thread. There is disagreement over the efficiency of one form of punishment vs. the other. But punish we must, agreed?
Allow me to think a heretic thought: Are we really punishing the people responsible for all this? I don’t think we are. Wasn’t it the authorities’ exact job to prevent something like this tragedy from happening? And for whatever reason: They did not deliver! And now, we’re being presented with this story of this young man, who was under some detrimental influence from his brother’s, who apparently was less lucky in adjusting to the place his parents had decided for him to live in and we’re supposed to believe that these two young man carry out a tremendously heinous deed under the constant surveillance of an army of so-called “experts” and get away with placing bags on the boardwalk and walk away from them and all of this bullshit, while this same army of experts was on site for no other fucking reason than looking out for things of this exact nature?????
I will never – ever !!! – buy the official version of this whole thing! And with this being said: We’re NOT looking at the real perpetrators! If it were for me, I’d get this young man acquitted. He’s ruined for life as it is from the events he was exposed to and subjected to. Lynch or block me, if you must.