Good morning, lovers…
What a joy, what a pleasure, what a thrill it is to make things for other people. Creativity (for me) happens within a magical world, into which I have always escaped whenever my real world doesn’t offer what I need or want at the moment. Whatever I create in that magical world of ideas and imagination becomes real the moment I commit it to a tangible existence.
When I was growing up I spent a lot of time creating in my head, but because we had so little money there were precious few opportunities to manifest into reality anything I dreamed up. Painting on my bedroom wall with crayons was an affordable artistic endeavor and so my mother championed it. So was making my own clothes, although I would get so impatient to wear whatever I was sewing together that my seamstressing skills were rather amateurish (a dress looked far better on the outside than it did on the inside). And even the ritual of fixing something to eat to quell a long day’s hunger pains became creative once I realized that good food made people happy, satisfied, and (often) talkative, which extended the dinner, which made me happy.
When I was all grown up, and working, and making money, it became easier to translate into tangible existence my more elaborate imaginings. Over time my dreams switched from making dresses of silk to making my own jewelry, inspired wholly by the wondrous skills of Southwestern Pueblo Indian jewelry smiths (I grew up in Northern New Mexico). And, predictably, once I developed some proficiency in silver, I dreamed of gold.
Far less predictably, I dreamed of designing wedding rings, less predictable because I wasn’t married and had no desire to be. Although I understood the essential belief that wedding rings are meant to be a symbolic expression of marriage vows, to me, as a designer, they had the potential to be something far more meaningful for a couple getting married. They could be an expression of “together, yet individual,” of “united, yet independent,” of “traditional, yet eccentric,” but I couldn’t find rings designed with such sentiments anywhere.
I couldn’t find wedding rings that I would want to wear were I to want to get married. And so I started designing rings. And soon couples started asking me to design rings for them. And designing them became my greatest joy and honor as a designer, because it was such a privilege to be included in a couple’s love for one another and their personal expression of how that love might translate into the slips of metal that would surround their fingers.
These Whorl Wedding Rings were created for friends – both of whom are bakers – and are made out of 18k rose gold. Hers slim with tiny diamonds, his wide and bold. They are entirely different from one another, but made to harmonize, to fit, to complement, to accompany.
Here’s the funny thing: eventually when I did get married, I did not design and make my husband’s and my weddings rings. Sometimes it is easier to make something for someone else.
Here’s to lovers being together in harmony, but always retaining their individual spirits.
Have a lovely day, lovers.
Giselle
June 15, 2012 at 12:56 pm
absolutely glorious
June 15, 2012 at 1:11 pm
What lovely factoids about the evolution of your creativity Giselle. These rings are utterly gorgeous.
June 15, 2012 at 1:13 pm
Not sure how long the relationship will last due to file erosion on adjacent fingers;)
June 15, 2012 at 1:20 pm
Creativity is ultimately about a disappointing world, isn’t it? You can’t find in it what you need, so… you are reduced to making something that will satisfy that need…
June 15, 2012 at 1:23 pm
George Kozi that’s an interesting take on it…I think creativity stems from feeling joy….and that joy is then channeled….but that’s just my “take”.
June 15, 2012 at 1:23 pm
Hello everyone…I think my brain, heart and soul are simply (genetically?) wired to try to make the world beautiful. Although some creativity I’ll admit isn’t necessarily beautiful, I have no desire to make ugly rings or bad tasting food or clothes that don’t fit. Aesthetics matter. Even in computers! Even on G+!
June 15, 2012 at 1:24 pm
And what you just wrote is so obvious. Even when you cook…the presentation is artwork!;-)
June 15, 2012 at 1:26 pm
Giselle Minoli Don’t forget architecture! I’m SOOOOO fed up with the current “I know how to draw a straight line, but I have no artistic bone in my body” architectural style.
June 15, 2012 at 2:13 pm
Your work is very beautiful Giselle Minoli and is a reflection of your life and the way you see the world. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and the photographs of these lovely rings.
June 15, 2012 at 2:24 pm
Hi, Steven Kennard I know you know very personally what creation is all about…except that you are still doing it every day and I am only doing it very occasionally. I often wonder what it would be like not to be able to create…and I just can’t go there. Too depressing! Thank you for your words.
June 15, 2012 at 2:24 pm
Words escape me in the face of such a beautiful essay and works of art.
June 15, 2012 at 2:25 pm
George Kozi I know what you mean. I vacillate back and forth, but in truth my personal lifestyle is very streamlined. When it comes to jewelry, not a straight line to be seen…except perhaps in my men’s cufflinks! What does that say about me I wonder? LOL, George..
June 15, 2012 at 2:25 pm
Giselle Minoli …. whiting posts like this one Is creative… you are a content creator, and you do it every day.
June 15, 2012 at 2:30 pm
I don’t mind straight lines in architecture. What I do mind is the lack of aesthetics, the lack of imagination and the lack of couleur locale. And mostly, the lack of personality. Everything is the same… as if tradition and local style is something to be avoided and be ashamed of… It’s just silly.
June 15, 2012 at 2:36 pm
Creating is a great escape into new worlds, and you Giselle Minoli Minoli are a new world builder in every medium you touch.
June 15, 2012 at 6:15 pm
You know Matthew Graybosch…you are pretty much the only person who could inspire me to design something without it being an actual commission.
I’m now pondering The Starbreaker Wedding Bands…
June 24, 2012 at 6:43 am
That was an awesome post Giselle Minoli! The land of creativity, a vast world of unlimited potential and as you say a “magical world of ideas and imagination”. I love that world and to be able to pluck something from that place and bring it back in to the real world for others to enjoy.
; )
June 27, 2012 at 10:10 am
Giselle Minoli Utterly beautiful rings. I wish the lucky couple the very best and a happy and long life.
But…
If they should ever fall out, could I have first refusal on those rings please? 😉
June 27, 2012 at 10:20 am
Hi David Kasiniak and David Wainwright. Thank you for your comments. I miss designing and making things for other people. It’s a huge pleasure. The nicest thing, actually, is that sometimes people lose things and they need a replacement and if they know the designer it’s just a phone call. Funny…people tend not to lose their wedding rings! Have a good day…